• Community Announcement from hauntedcuriosities

    Starting next Monday with every order,not every item,you will get your choice of a vampire one card reading. You can also take a fairy reading your choice. You will get the card in the mail with your order.

    New items will be going on the website later today and if for some reason you don't see them they will be on tomorrow.

    All items but one that I placed on my Black Friday sales sold! I will have more great deals so look for them on the website.

    For those in my class I will be going away on Monday and will not have access to chat. I will be back in a week. I can not put the trip off or I would.

    You all have a great weekend.

  • ErrAdO





    Serviu de mote e inspiração.


    ERRADO

    tantas vezes
    é a direcção dos nossos sentidos.
    Que seguem trilhos
    e abismos
    que nos sufocam
    caindo desfalecidos, no chão
    carregado de desventuras…

    Num DESPERTAR

    e no último instante
    há uma força interior
    que emana de esperança
    e que se eleva mais alto…


    Filo Novembro 2009




  • "Θα ενοχλήσει. Τόσο το καλύτερο!"

    Από την Έφη Παπαζαχαρίου, φωτογραφίες: Γιώργος Μαυρόπουλος

    Ο σκηνοθέτης της «Στρέλλας» Πάνος Χ. Κούτρας και η πρωταγωνίστρια Μίνα Oρφανού μιλούν στον «Τ»

    "Θα ενοχλήσει. Τόσο το καλύτερο!"
    Αυτό ήταν το σχόλιο της «Figaro» για τη «Στρέλλα», την ταινία του Πάνου Κούτρα που υπόσχεται ένα Δεκέμβριο γεμάτο συγκίνηση και... αντεγκλήσεις.

    Πάντως ο σκηνοθέτης και η πρωταγωνίστρια της ταινίας, που ήδη παίζεται σε 16 αίθουσες στη Γαλλία με διθυραμβικές κριτικές, δεν λένε κάτι πρωτότυπο: η Ελλάδα εξακολουθεί να κατασπαράζει τα παιδιά της.

    Συνεχίζει να άγεται και να φέρεται από προκαταλήψεις, να απομονώνει, να πληγώνει ή να χλευάζει το «διαφορετικό», όπως κι αν αυτό λέγεται: φυλακισμένος, ομοφυλόφιλος, μετανάστης...

    Η Ελλάδα σάς πονάει;

    Πάνος Χ. Κούτρας: «Η Ελλάδα με εξοντώνει».

    Μίνα Oρφανού: «Με πονάει, ναι. Προτιμώ τα νησιά της! O τουρισμός εκεί βοήθησε στο άνοιγμα του μυαλού...»

    Ο Πάνος Χ. Κούτρας έκανε μια ταινία που χρειαζόταν τόλμη και θάρρος (και χιούμορ!). «Με λένε Στέλλα. Oι φίλοι με φωνάζουν Στρέλλα, γιατί λένε ότι είμαι λίγο τρελή»:

    Μια ιστορία για έναν πρώην φυλακισμένο, μια τρανσέξουαλ πόρνη, έναν έρωτα, τη ζωή ενός κόσμου δίπλα «μας» – και την αγάπη που ακόμη και τα πιο δύσκολα μπορεί να τα κάνει τόσο απλά. Κι έβαλε πρωταγωνίστρια τη Μίνα Oρφανού. Ερασιτέχνιδα ηθοποιό, τρανσέξουαλ με τόλμη και θάρρος (και χιούμορ!).

    Στις 17 Δεκεμβρίου το κοινό θα συναντήσει την ευαίσθητη, γοητευτική, ατίθαση και ανένδοτα προκλητική «Στρέλλα» στις ελληνικές αίθουσες, απλώνοντάς της –ή όχι; –το χέρι. Ήδη η ταινία συγκινεί τη Γαλλία, όπου προβάλλεται σε 16 αίθουσες.

    Η εφημερίδα «Libération», χορηγός επικοινωνίας της διανομής της εκεί, τη χαρακτηρίζει «ταινία από αυτές που σύντομα δεν θα γίνονται πια», η «Le Monde» μιλάει για «...διάθεση ελευθερίας, απρόσμενες εκρήξεις σκηνοθεσίας και αισθητικής (ανάμεσα στην πικάντικη ζωντάνια ενός Πέδρο Αλμοδόβαρ και τον οπερατικό λυρισμό ενός Βέρνερ Σρέτερ)», ενώ η «Figaro» διατείνεται πως «η υπέροχη ταινία του Κούτρα, που ξαναδιαβάζει τους κώδικες της αρχαίας ελληνικής τραγωδίας, θα ενοχλήσει. Τόσο το καλύτερο!»
     
    Έτσι είναι: το βαρύ «μυστικό» της «Στρέλλας» θα σοκάρει. Είμαστε έτοιμοι γι’ αυτό; Αλλά μήπως ήμασταν έτοιμοι πριν από 50 χρόνια και για την άλλη ασυμβίβαστη κι ανυποχώρητη «Στέλλα»;

    Προς το παρόν, τόσο με τον άκρατο ρομαντισμό όσο και με το συγκλονιστικό ρεαλισμό της, η «Στρέλλα» έχει «αναστατώσει» τον κινηματογραφικό κόσμο εντός κι εκτός της χώρας, συμμετέχοντας στο επίσημο πρόγραμμα του φετινού Φεστιβάλ Βερολίνου (τμήμα «Πανόραμα») και σε είκοσι ακόμη φεστιβάλ, παίρνοντας διακρίσεις και ενθουσιώδεις κριτικές –«ένα διαμάντι που ξεπερνάει κάθε σύνορο» έγραψαν οι Γερμανοί– και βάζοντας υποψηφιότητα, μαζί με τον επίσης σημαντικό «Κυνόδοντα» του Γιώργου Λάνθιμου, για τα φετινά Βραβεία Ευρωπαϊκού Κινηματογράφου.

    Ε, ναι, λοιπόν, «το ελληνικό σινεμά αυθαδιάζει!».

    Η «Στρέλλα» προτείνει ένα νέο, εναλλακτικό μοντέλο οικογένειας;

    Π.: Η «Στρέλλα» καταλήγει στο συμπέρασμα πως, όταν υπάρχει η ανάγκη των ανθρώπων να βρίσκονται κοντά και σεβασμός γι’ αυτό που είναι ο καθένας, όλα είναι πιθανά. Δεν υπάρχουν όρια ούτε στεγανά. Η οικογένεια είναι κάτι πολύ ισχυρό και μεγαλειώδες όταν υπάρχει αλληλοσεβασμός και αγάπη. Δυστυχώς, οι σχέσεις αίματος δεν το κατοχυρώνουν αυτό.

    Μ.: Η «Στρέλλα» προτείνει να σεβόμαστε τους ανθρώπους που αγαπάμε.

    Εσείς έχετε ξεπεράσει το πρότυπο οικογένειας, τα στερεότυπα, αξίες και ταμπού, με τα οποία προφανώς –όπως όλοι– μεγαλώσατε, ή ακόμη παλεύετε γι’ αυτό;

    Π.: Ποτέ δεν ξεπερνάς πραγματικά τα στερεότυπα και τις προκαταλήψεις – απλά τα απομονώνεις και τα θέτεις σε καταστολή! Η πάλη ενάντια στο ρατσισμό, την ομοφοβία, την ξενοφοβία, τη μισαλλοδοξία είναι καθημερινή. Όπως η πάλη σε κάθε μορφή αδικίας. Τίποτα και καμία στιγμή δεν πρέπει να θεωρείται κερδισμένο.

    Μ.: Προτίμησα να ζήσω μακριά από τα «πρέπει» των άλλων. Ακολούθησα το δικό μου δρόμο. Δεν ήταν εύκολος.

    Πόση τόλμη και τρέλα χρειάζεται για να εκθέσει κάποιος τη διαφορετικότητά του;

    Π.: Η διαφορετικότητα δεν κρύβεται. Εν αντιθέσει, φαίνεται – για τον απλό λόγο πως είναι διαφορετική. Η ομοιότητα εξαφανίζεται μέσα στο όλον. Είναι τρελό να προσπαθείς να κρύψεις τη διαφορετικότητά σου. Είναι τόσο μάταιο. Μου φαίνεται ένας αγώνας χαμένος από την αρχή.

    Μ.: Χρειάζεται τόλμη και τρέλα έτσι κι αλλιώς. Για να μπορέσεις να επιβιώσεις.

    Η «Στρέλλα» έχει λάβει μέρος σε πολλά gay and lesbian φεστιβάλ. Αρκετοί την αποκαλούν «queer ταινία». Συμφωνείτε ή θεωρείτε πως έτσι την απομονώνουν;

    Π.: Φυσικά και συμφωνώ. Είναι μια queer ταινία. Αυτό όμως δεν σημαίνει πως δεν αφορά ένα ευρύτερο κοινό. Oι περισσότερες ταινίες μιλάνε για ετεροφυλόφιλες σχέσεις, χωρίς αυτό να εμποδίζει ένα queer κοινό να ταυτίζεται. Θυμώνω με τους ανθρώπους που βλέπουν τα πράγματα μονοδιάστατα. Δεν με πειράζουν οι ετικέτες, με πειράζει η αντιμετώπισή τους.

    Μ.: Είναι μια ταινία αληθινή και συγκινητική! Και κοινωνική, και πολιτική, και από όλα. Όπως θέλει ο καθένας ας την ονομάσει...

    Πιστεύετε πως η σύγχρονη κοινωνία ακόμη σήμερα μάχεται το «διαφορετικό» απ’ όπου κι αν προέρχεται ή τα πράγματα έχουν αλλάξει;

    Π.: Ελάχιστα έχουν αλλάξει τα πράγματα. Το διαφορετικό είναι κάτι που φοβίζει πολύ. Σε πάρα πολλές χώρες ακόμα δυστυχώς αντιμετωπίζεται σκληρά. Ακόμα και με φυλάκιση ή θανατική ποινή. Είμαι από αυτούς που πιστεύουν πως ο άνθρωπος γεννιέται άγριος, βίαιος, ρατσιστής... Είναι ένας αγώνας ζωής να αλλάξει. Αυτό για μένα είναι και ο πολιτισμός.

    Μ.: Τίποτα δεν έχει αλλάξει. Κάθε άνθρωπος προσπαθεί μόνος του να βρει τη δική του θέση σε αυτόν το σκληρό κόσμο.

    Η αγάπη είναι τελικά το μεγάλο όπλο μας απέναντι σε όλα; Σε κάνει να ξεπεράσεις προκαταλήψεις και ταμπού που ποτέ ίσως δεν πίστευες πως ήταν δυνατόν;

    Π.: Η αγάπη μού φαίνεται μια πολύ αφηρημένη λέξη. Φυσικά και τη χρησιμοποιώ, αλλά πάντα με μια χαριτωμενίστικη διάθεση. Στην ταινία δεν λένε ποτέ «σ’ αγαπώ - μ’ αγαπάς», αλλά «δεν θέλω να σε χάσω» ή «μου λείπεις». Αυτό μου φαίνεται σημαντικό. Την αγάπη τη μετράω με την έλλειψη που αισθάνομαι για τον άλλον ή με την αδυναμία μου να συνεχίσω χωρίς τον άλλον. Αυτά είναι πραγματικά και μετρήσιμα. Αυτά βέβαια είναι η αγάπη – και η αγάπη είναι πάνω και πέρα από όλα.

    Μ.: Πιο πολύ από την αγάπη πιστεύω στο μυαλό...

    Πάνος Χ. Κούτρας: «Είναι δειλοί όσοι το κρύβουν»

    Το διαφορετικό, το αλλόκοτο, το περιθώριο, το υπερβολικό τον συνάρπαζαν πάντα – και στις προηγούμενες ταινίες «Η επίθεση του γιγαντιαίου μουσακά» (1999) και «Αληθινή ζωή» (2004), όπωςστη «Στρέλλα»:

    «Γι’ αυτό αισθάνομαι πως είμαι όλα αυτά. Μιλάω για τον εαυτό μου». Όλα διανθισμένα με τη σπίθα τού–συχνά σαρκαστικού ή δηκτικού– χιούμορ. Σπουδές κινηματογράφου στο London’s Film School και στη Σορβόνη,ζωή και δουλειά στο Παρίσι, πριν γυρίσει στην Αθήνα.

    Η «Στρέλλα», ιδέα που είχε χρόνια στο μυαλό, πήρε επιτέλους τώρα σάρκα και οστά: «Μέσω αυτής μπορούσα να μιλήσω για πράγματα που με απασχολούν πολύ τα τελευταία χρόνια...»

    «Στρέλλα», «Κυνόδοντας», «Ακαδημία Πλάτωνος». Είναι σύμπτωση ότι τρεις νέες ταινίες ασχολούνται με τη δομή της ελληνικής οικογένειας και κοινωνίας;

    Πολλοί στην Ελλάδα θέλουν την αλλαγή. Ζητούν να ξεφύγουμε από μια στενή ελληνορθόδοξη ηθική που περιθάλπει μοντέλα αναχρονιστικά, αντιδραστικά, τη μισαλλοδοξία και το συντηρητισμό.

    Τα ερωτήματα που τίθενται είναι ερωτήματα ουσίας. Θέτουν υπό ερώτηση τη βάση. Και φυσικά η βάση είναι η οικογένεια. Ειδικά όταν αυτή συνεχίζει να έχει την ιερότητα που έχει στην Ελλάδα – παρόλο που βλέπουμε πόσο έχει αποτύχει.

    Όμως οι ταινίες του Λάνθιμου, του Τσίτου, η δική μου ωχριούν μπροστά σε αυτό που μπορεί να συναντήσεις στις εκπομπές της Πάνια, σε μια βόλτα στην Oμόνοια ή σε ένα τένις κλαμπ. Η εσωτερική κατάρρευση έχει επέλθει χρόνια. Ευτυχώς! Το θέμα τώρα είναι να μιλήσουμε γι’ αυτό, να δούμε τι κάνουμε.

    Εσείς ο ίδιος δηλώνετε γκέι. Ποια η άποψή σας για όσους φοβούνται ακόμη σήμερα να δηλώσουν τη διαφορετικότητά τους;

    Για μερικούς είναι πολύ δύσκολο και το κατανοώ. Ωστόσο το βρίσκω θλιβερό, με στενοχωρεί. Ειδικά στην Ελλάδα που υπάρχει ακόμα μεγάλη ομοφοβία. Είμαι πιο σκληρός με τους επώνυμους γκέι και λεσβίες που το αρνούνται ή το κρύβουν.

    Νομίζω πως φέρουν μεγάλη ευθύνη. Το θεωρώ δειλία και ανήθικο απέναντι στο παιδί που μεγαλώνει στην επαρχία, είναι γκέι ή λεσβία και δεν μπορεί να το ομολογήσει, ενώ συγχρόνως δεν έχει κανένα πρότυπο. Κάπου να κρατηθεί, να ταυτιστεί, να βρει το δρόμο του.

    Πολλοί τέτοιοι νέοι οδηγούνται σε ακραίες συμπεριφορές, όπως η αυτοκτονία. Πρέπει να βρουν το θάρρος οι πολιτικοί, οι καλλιτέχνες, οι αθλητές, οι επιχειρηματίες, όποιοι άλλοι, να το πουν. Θα ζήσουν αυτοί καλύτερα – και σίγουρα σε καλύτερο κόσμο.

    Πώς είχατε νιώσει όταν δέχθηκε τη «Στρέλλα» το Φεστιβάλ Βερολίνου, ενώ εξακολουθούσαν να την απορρίπτουν στην Ελλάδα;

    Η απόρριψη είναι πάντα κάτι πολύ σκληρό, από όπου και αν έρχεται. Από τους γονείς, τον άνθρωπο που αγαπάς ή το Κέντρο Κινηματογράφου. Το πώς τη χειρίζεσαι είναι άλλη υπόθεση. Με κατέβαλε, αλλά ποτέ για πολύ καιρό.

    Όσο έπρεπε (χαμόγελο). Είναι δύσκολο να κάνεις ταινίες στην Ελλάδα. Τελεία. Δεν υπάρχουν χρήματα – και, το πιο σημαντικό, δεν υπάρχει κινηματογραφική συνείδηση. Όλα καταλήγουν στο να είναι πρόβλημα. Αλλά είχα μεγάλη βοήθεια από ανθρώπους του χώρου και φυσικά από φίλους.

    Είστε μέλος των «Κινηματογραφιστών στην Oμίχλη». Υπάρχει ελπίδα να βγει κάτι σημαντικό από αυτή την κίνηση;

    Θέλω να πιστεύω πως ναι. Η κίνηση των «Κινηματογραφιστών» είναι από τα πιο σημαντικά πράγματα που έχουν γίνει στη χώρα εδώ και χρόνια.

    Είναι η πρώτη φορά, νομίζω, που τόσοι διαφορετικοί άνθρωποι του χώρου ενώνουν τις δυνάμεις τους, με σκοπό να καλυτερεύσουν τις συνθήκες για τον κινηματογράφο, να ξεφύγουν από παλαιούς μηχανισμούς, νοσηρές αντιλήψεις και πελατειακές σχέσεις.

    Να υπάρξει επιτέλους ένα νέο και σύγχρονο ευρωπαϊκό πολιτιστικό πρόσωπο σ’ αυτή τη χώρα. Ελπίζω να ακολουθήσουν αυτό το παράδειγμα όλο και πιο πολλοί από διαφορετικούς χώρους.

    Μίνα Ορφανού: «Οικογένεια είναι οι φίλοι μου... »

    Γοητευτική, πληθωρική, χαμογελαστή. Μοιάζει –και νιώθει, λέει– όπως το κορίτσι της διπλανής πόρτας. Δεν διστάζει να πει πως είναι τρανσέξουαλ. Φοβάται όμως πολύ, για κάποιο λόγο, μη χάσει την αξιοπρέπειά της.

    Η Στρέλλα είναι ο πρώτος της ρόλος –με Βραβείο Ερμηνείας, που τη συγκίνησε πολύ, στο Φεστιβάλ της Λισαβόνας–, αλλά ίσως όχι ο τελευταίος, αφού «θέλω να ξαναπαίξω, αρκεί να μην είναι ίδιος χαρακτήρας».

    Γεννήθηκε στη Ρόδο, ένιωσε νωρίς τη διαφορετικότητά της και θέλησε να βρει τον κόσμο της. Oι δικοί της την αγκάλιασαν. Δεν είναι πολλοί τόσο τυχεροί. Ζωγραφίζει, ετοιμάζει την 8η ατομική έκθεση το Δεκέμβριο και συχνά-πυκνά τραγουδάει ηλεκτρονική όπερα.

    Παράλληλα διατηρεί, με άλλους, κομμωτήριο. Το μαγνητόφωνο την τρομάζει. Μόλις κλείσει, ο λόγος της χειμαρρώδης.

    Στρέλλα - Μίνα: υπάρχουν κοινά σημεία; Πόσο δύσκολο ήταν να παίξετε αυτό το ρόλο – ακόμη κι αν ο χαρακτήρας σάς είναι οικείος;

    Στην εμφάνιση είμαστε ίδιες, στο χαρακτήρα όχι ακριβώς. Η Στρέλλα είναι μια γυναίκα δυνατή, γενναία, γενναιόδωρη και αποφασισμένη να επιβιώσει σε έναν κόσμο που δεν της έχει δώσει τις ευκαιρίες για ευτυχία, σαν και μένα.

    Από την άλλη, πάει στα άκρα χωρίς να σκέφτεται τις συνέπειες – κάτι που εγώ προσπαθώ να μην κάνω. Με τον ΠάνοΚούτρα κάναμε σχεδόν ένα χρόνο πρόβες.

    Κατάλαβα πως είναι τρελός, αλλά όχι τόσο ώστε να είναι επικίνδυνος. Δεν καταλάβαινα τι ήθελε να κάνει, ούτε κι εγώ ήξερα ακριβώς τι έπρεπε να κάνω, αλλά ένιωθα πως δεν θα με εξέθετε ποτέ!

    Αυτό για μένα ήταν το πιο σημαντικό. Όταν ήρθε η μέρα που άνοιξε η κάμερα, όλα προχώρησαν ομαλά. Ήταν πολύ κουραστικά τα γυρίσματα και μερικές σκηνές πολύ δύσκολες, αλλά τα καταφέραμε.

    Η οικογένεια είναι όντως «η κατάρα των τρανς», όπως λέει σε μια ατάκα της η Στρέλλα;

    Ακόμη και η χειρότερη οικογένεια τελικά αποτελείται από ανθρώπους που αγαπάς. Αν και οικογένεια μπορεί να είναι και οι φίλοι σου, το κουνελάκι μου, η Μόκα, τα τραγούδια μου.

    Πόσο δύσκολη είναι η καθημερινότητά σας στην Ελλάδα; Νιώθετε έκδηλα ρατσισμό γύρω σας;

    Όσο δύσκολη και των υπόλοιπων Ελλήνων. Ειδικά αν μένεις στην Αθήνα, που η ζωή είναι αγχωτική και νευρική. Δεν έχω βιώσει το ρατσισμό, γιατί η εικόνα μου δεν προδίδει αυτό που είμαι, δεν αποκαλύπτεται στον κόσμο.

    Ποια είναι η άποψή σας για την πορνεία των τρανσέξουαλ στην Ελλάδα; Θα μπορούσαν να είναι αλλιώς τα πράγματα; Να έχουν κανονικές δουλειές;

    Η πορνεία είναι επιλογή του καθενός. Θεωρώ πως στη χώρα μας δεν δίνεται η δυνατότητα για άλλες δουλειές κι εξαναγκάζονται να προωθηθούν στην πορνεία. Και δεν κατηγορώ τις τρανσέξουαλ που εκτίθενται στο δρόμο, αφού οι πιο πολλοί οίκοι ανοχής έχουν κανονικές γυναίκες.

    Όταν διαβάσατε στο σενάριο το «μυστικό» της ταινίας, εκπλαγήκατε; Ποια ήταν η πρώτη σας αντίδραση;

    Ναι, ήταν μια έκπληξη, αλλά μου φάνηκε λογικό για το χαρακτήρα της Στρέλλας, που είναι ένα πληγωμένο παιδί και λίγο σ-τρελή (γέλια). Είμαι και εγώ, αλλά όχι τόσο!

    Info
    Η "Στρέλλα" θα αρχίσει να προβάλλεται στους ελληνικούς κινηματογράφους στι; 17 Δεκεμβρίου.

    http://www.tanea.gr/default.asp?pid=2&ct=84&artid=4548292

  • November 28, 2009


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    ^^^^^^WTF

  • 11/28/09 Writing Prompt

    Sorry I missed yesterday's but here I am rectifying the situation. 

    Why Is It Always The Green Shirt

  • Murder Suspect from Florida May be Headed to Michigan

    Murder Suspect Could be Headed to Michigan

    Police Fear Man Who Opened Fire on Own

    Family May Be Headed North


    Police say 35-year-old Paul Michael Mirhage opened fire on his own family in Jupiter, Florida, Thursday night just after the Thanksgiving dinner. They say he was an invited guest who walked outside and came back in and started shooting, killing his twin 33-year-old sisters; one of them was pregnant Mirhage is also accused of killing a 79-year-old aunt and a 6-year-old cousin who was already in her bed.

    Police in Jupiter, Florida, and in Birmingham, Michigan, have put out an alert, because Mirhage is on the run and believed to be heavily armed. He may have lived in the Birmingham area for a short time within the past year or so, and may have seen a doctor here.

  • Alyssa Bustamante - Lost Soul: What Her Astrological Chart Says!

    Lost Soul:  What Does Alyssa's Astrological Chart Say?

    The first thing you notice about death or bloody drama on newspaper or this latest news articles. Yes, That's indeed Pluto Soul!



    Alyssa Bustamante "wanted to Know What it Felt Like" to Kill a Human Being According to Missouri State Highway Patrol Sgt. David Rice, Alyssa Bustamante, 15, wanted to "know what it felt like" to kill another human being .As such, on October 21, Bustamante killed 9-year-old Elizabeth Olten by strangulation, cutting her throat and stabbing her.

    http://nancygrace.blogs.cnn.com/2009/11/23/inside-the-mind-of-a-child-killer/

    The stars always interacted with the teen child killer period! You can not separating the human mind from the star's interaction. That is a huge mistake for everybody can not read based on criminal psychology, but I can read anyone on the spot in less than a minutes. Do you know why I mention it? Because Pluto rules death, sex, drama, the underworld, the police, criminals, and wake up calls and is EVIL him/herself. Without Cosmic Consciousness, Nobody can answer you a question what it means to be human or the real reasons behind criminal minds, not even a bunch of traditionally educated psychologists / psychiatrists professionals and medical students.

    Anytime death/bloody drama is involved and always based on criminal psychology to always check the position of Pluto. Pluto is called in Greek Mythology the Lord of Death and Hades is the lord of the dead and ruler of the nether world.
    Her astrological chart- Mercury in Aquarius(surprise/technology/shocking news in all major social networking and micro-blogging service Facebook and Twitter) On what appears to be her Twitter page, her messages speak of "addiction", "terrors", “killing people” and “cutting.” One Tweet: "& all I want in life is a reason for all this pain." Her Mercury-Aquarius's energy is speaking for herself as universal truth whether you like or not.


    Alyssa was born with the Dragon's Head in Scorpio! Note that Scorpio (death/drama) rules her 11th house of friends! Thus making her friends on the teen's YouTube page, a video appears to show the suspect with her brothers purposefully shocking themselves on an electrified fence. Notice all the kids in the video have skulls on their shirts. They seem spoiled and misguided because of the design on their shirts. If you look at it closely the girl is wearing a "Nightmare Before Christmas" or "Pirates of the Carribean" movies that have come out and have been really popular. The third kid looks like he's wearing a "Punisher" shirt, now wait, wasn't that another popular movie? That's right, all of them are. That is real Lost soul children....without cosmic consciousness, a victim of a system lacking vital star perception. I would like to suggest Alyssa will have to auto analyze herself correctly and forcefully accept who she is before too late for her, but not happened that time and also was born with the moon in Leo (children) in her 8th house of Death! While Leo rules fames she made international Unfame by killing another child.

    http://divineastrology.blogspot.com/2009/11/alyssa-bustamante-lost-soul.html

  • Baltimore Family Shares Pain Over Youth Leader's Murder

    Family Shares Pain Over Youth Leader's Murder

    Angelo Dangerfield was gunned down Wednesday while walking his dog in South Baltimore.

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    A south Baltimore family breaks its silence on the murder of a popular youth leader. The young man was shot and killed while walking his dog.

    Weijia Jiang reports the search is now on for his killer.

    When twenty-one-year-old Angelo Dangerfield's mother looked out the back window of their Cherry Hill home and saw a dead body, she called her son's name for help, but he didn't answer.

    "By the time she got down there, someone else had called police. She got there; they were turning him over, and it was my brother," said Stacey Rawlings, victim's sister.

    Dangerfield's family members describe the Southwestern High School graduate as a well-known community youth leader, very involved with programs like 4-H and determined to go to college one day.

    "He was happy about life. He wanted to do something with his life. He wanted to move him and his mom from out this neighborhood," said Shawanda Rawlings, victim's cousin.

    Dangerfield was walking his pit bull named Princess when he was shot early Wednesday morning.

    "He's just an all around good guy," said the victim's brother-in-law.

    Police say video surveillance cameras captured Dangerfield walking Princess but by the time the camera panned around once, he was on the ground.

    "We know this was a good young man. We have a lot of homicides and shootings in Baltimore City where a lot of times the victims bring baggage along with them. In this case, this young man has no criminal history," said Det. Donnie Moses, Baltimore City Police.

    The homicide marks the third high profile case of seemingly random violence in Cherry Hill this year.

    In August, community activist Shirley Foulks was shot in the shoulder while sitting on her couch. In October, a 13-year-old was doing her homework inside her home when a stray bullet struck her.

    The neighborhood has held many walks to protest the violence -- the very violence that took a young man's life.

    "It's like a dream, a nightmare, not even reality, heartbreaking," said Shawanda. Anyone with information on this case is asked to call police.


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  • Update: Relative Sought in 4 Florida Thanksgiving Killings - 5th Being Treated at Hospital

    Thanksgiving Shooting Kills 4 Relatives

    5th Victim Being Treated At Hospital


    Police were searching Friday for a man suspected in the Thanksgiving shooting deaths of his twin sisters, aunt and a 6-year-old cousin during a family celebration. One of the sisters, Lisa Knight, 33, was pregnant, said Jupiter Police spokeswoman Sally Collins-Ortiz. She did not say how far along the woman was in her pregnancy. Police said 17 relatives were in the Palm Beach County house when the shootings were reported around 10 p.m.


    Thursday in Jupiter, a small beach town about 90 miles north of Miami that is best known as a home to celebrities including Michael Jordan and Burt Reynolds. The little girl was sleeping in her bed when she was shot, police said. A fifth man was critically wounded and a sixth was treated at the scene for a gunshot graze. Jupiter Police Sgt. Scott Pascarella said officers were looking for Paul Michael Merhige, 35, of Miami.


    Merhige is a cousin of the 6-year-old victim, Makayla Sitton, and has no criminal record, police said.

    McKayla Sitton
    McKayla Sitton, 6.
    The others killed were Merhige's twin sisters, Carla Merhige and Lisa Knight, 33, and an aunt, Raymonde Joseph, 76, according to police. Authorities said a fifth victim, Merhige's brother-in-law Patrick Knight, was being treated at a hospital. His condition was not available. Another man, Clifford Gebara, 52, was grazed by a bullet and was treated by paramedics at the scene.


    Police across South Florida and the U.S. Marshals Service were searching for Merhige. Pascarella said Merhige is believed to be driving a blue 2007 4-door Toyota Camry with Florida license plate W42 7JT. Pascarella said police received a 911 call from a neighbor shortly after 10 p.m. Police then received a second 911 call from someone within the home, which is owned by a local TV videojournalist and his wife. Makayla Sitton is the photojournalist's daughter. Pascarella said the shootings took place inside the house. He said that sometime after Thanksgiving dinner, Merhige left the residence and returned shortly afterward with a handgun. "What led to this incident, we're not quite sure," said Pascarella.


    "It did not appear there was any altercation prior to this shooting." Pascarella said there was an "ongoing resentment" in the family, but didn't know the nature of the problem or whether the victims were specifically targeted. Police said the home was owned by Jim Sitton, a photojournalist for WPTV-TV. Sitton told WPTV his daughter was in bed when she was shot. He was at the party at the time of the shooting but was not wounded. Yellow crime scene tape was stretched around Sitton's salmon-colored house, located in a well-kept subdivision of stucco homes. Several cars were parked in the driveway, and a crime scene van sat in front.


    Sitton told local media that his daughter was supposed to perform Friday in a holiday production of "The Nutcracker." "God packed a lot of sweetness into that little body," Sitton said. "She's just our life. I don't know how we are ever going to recover."

    The relationship between Sitton and Paul Merhige was unclear, police said. Phone calls to a number listed for Paul Merhige were not answered. A phone call to Sitton also was not returned. At a house in southwest Miami-Dade where family members had gathered late Friday morning, relatives declined to comment. Neighbors in the Palm Beach County community were shocked.

    "Our kids walk the streets by themselves," said Nicole Kemp, 67, who did not know any of the victims. "I thought it was the safest place to live. I guess it doesn't matter, if there's a maniac here."

    It's unclear where the adult victims lived. Carla Merhige was a real estate agent in Miami, said a co-worker. "She was a wonderful agent," said Joanna Sherman, a manager at Coldwell Banker Residential real estate. "She was very active in the community and in charities. She was just a genuine, beautiful individual. She always had a smile for everybody."  

    JUPITER, Fla. (AP) - Authorities in Florida were searching Saturday for a man police said opened fire on his family after Thanksgiving dinner and killed four people, including his pregnant sister and a 6-year-old cousin who was sleeping in her bed.


    There had been "ongoing resentment" in the family, but investigators weren't sure what specifically prompted the shooting, officials said. Police were looking for Paul Michael Merhige, 35, of Miami. He was believed to be driving a royal blue 2007 Toyota Camry with a rear spoiler and Florida license plate.


    Merhige is also accused of gunning down his pregnant sister's twin and his 79-year-old aunt.


    "What led to this incident, we're not quite sure," said Jupiter Police Sgt. Scott Pascarella. "It did not appear there was any altercation prior to this shooting."


    Pascarella said Merhige left briefly before returning to the home where 17 relatives had gathered in Jupiter, a small beach town about 90 miles north of Miami. The town is known as a home to celebrities including Michael Jordan and Burt Reynolds.


    Pascarella said police first received a 911 call from a neighbor, then another from someone inside the home. The residence, in a well-kept new subdivision with brick-paved driveways, is owned by local TV videojournalist Jim Sitton and his wife. The home was surrounded Friday by yellow crime scene tape and police crime unit vans.


    Sitton's daughter Makayla had gone to bed before the rampage, police said.


    "God packed a lot of sweetness into that little body," Sitton said. "She's just our life. I don't know how we are ever going to recover."


    Sitton told local media that his daughter was supposed to perform in a holiday production of "The Nutcracker." The Florida Classical Ballet Theatre had two shows Friday.


    "Makayla was part of our family, and as one of the youngest dancers, she was to be one of Mother Ginger's Children," artistic director Colleen Smith said. "She was a beautiful, dear girl. She was a beam."


    The other victims were Merhige's twin sisters, Carla Merhige and Lisa Knight, and an aunt, Raymonde Joseph. Merhige's brother-in-law Patrick Knight was in critical but stable condition at a local hospital. Another man, Clifford Gebara, 52, was grazed by a bullet.


    Carla Merhige was a real estate agent in Miami.


    "She was a wonderful agent," said Joanna Sherman, a manager at Coldwell Banker Residential real estate. "She was very active in the community and in charities. She was just a genuine, beautiful individual. She always had a smile for everybody."


    Neighbors in the Palm Beach County community were shocked as police processed the home.


    "Our kids walk the streets by themselves," said Nicole Kemp, 67, who did not know any of the victims. "I thought it was the safest place to live. I guess it doesn't matter, if there's a maniac here."

  • When a Veteran Turns to Crime: PTSD Sufferer, called "Broken."

    When a veteran turns to crime

    He has posttraumatic stress disorder; a VA counselor called him "broken."


    GENE J. PUSKAR / Associated Press
    Windy Horner holds a portrait of her husband, Nick
    (left); Laurie Claar holds one of her son Matthew.
    Both had posttraumatic stress disorder: Claar killed
    himself; Horner is charged in deaths.

    HOLLIDAYSBURG, Pa. - When the envelope arrived, Windy Horner was talking with her husband, Nick - Windy on a cell phone, Nick in the Blair County jail.


    Windy Horner did not recognize the return address. She feared hate mail; her husband is charged with killing two men and robbing a sandwich shop, and she blames his actions on posttraumatic stress disorder from his service in Iraq. Others do not agree.


    Now, she wondered: Should she open the envelope? Go ahead, Nick Horner said.


    The note was from a stranger, Laurie Claar. It was written on a card decorated with a rainbow and flowers, bearing the message, "Caring Thoughts Are With You."


    "I'm not sure what to say to you all except I understand and you all are in my prayers," Claar wrote. "And I don't think bad of Nick as he needs help to deal with PTSD."


    Her words reached a young couple sorely in need of encouragement.


    "I could hear him tearing up in his voice," Windy Horner said of her husband. "It was like, 'Maybe we're not alone in this.' "


    They were not. Claar, too, had been devastated by the war come home.


    And so began the unlikely friendship of Claar, a 49-year-old grandmother of five, and Windy Horner, a petite blonde the same age as Claar's youngest daughter.


    They are linked by tragedy, but also by a shared conviction that the military does an excellent job of keeping troops alive during combat - but not so well at keeping them healthy afterward.


    On April 26, Claar sat in the darkness next to her son's grave, waiting for the clock to strike 11:04 p.m.


    Exactly 25 years before, Matthew Claar had been born.


    "I just had to be there at that time," Claar said tearfully.


    More than seven months before his mother's vigil, fueled by guilt and PTSD, the Marine Corps veteran had pulled the trigger on the 9mm pistol in his mouth.


    In Iraq, he hunted house-to-house for insurgents, including one Matt shot several times. "Even when Matt told me that, he was shrugging it off," said Matt's father, Roy "Bud" Claar Jr. "But I could see in his face there was more to it than he was letting on."


    His four-year hitch ended in 2006. When he came home, he was moody and unpredictable. He was arrested twice for drunken driving in one 15-day stretch.


    But he was not screened, diagnosed, and treated for PTSD until after he was treated at a VA hospital for a work-related injury, a few months before he killed himself on Sept. 21, 2008.


    Laurie Claar was moved by newspaper accounts of the charges against Nick Horner, a 29-year-old Army veteran.


    On April 6, prosecutors say, Nick Horner - a veteran of three combat deployments - banged on a rear door of an Altoona Subway sandwich shop and fatally shot the clerk who opened it, Scott Garlick, 19. Then, Nick Horner ran down the street and allegedly gunned down Raymond Williams, 64, a retiree gathering his mail.


    On June 3, the Altoona Mirror published a hand-printed letter Nick Horner mailed from jail, apologizing for and attempting to explain what he had done:
    "I'm not looking for forgiveness or simphy [sic]. I just want people to watch for PTSD cases. There are so many of them. This needs to stop!" Nick Horner wrote.


    That day, Laurie Claar mailed the greeting card to the Horners.


    Windy Horner called the cell phone number in Laurie Claar's card. After visiting her husband one day, she met one of Laurie Claar's daughters, Autumn Houck, 30, across the street from the jail, and followed her to the Claars' home in Hollidaysburg, seven miles from Altoona.


    Windy Horner spent hours sharing pizza and doughnuts and stories about Nick Horner and Matt Claar with Laurie Claar's husband, children, and grandchildren.


    They shared tales of frightful nights when Nick Horner and Matt Claar brandished guns and insisted on "clearing" their homes, room by room, military-style, looking for "enemies." Nick Horner, too, had been arrested for drunken driving since his return.


    In Iraq, Nick Horner searched for roadside bombs, and Windy Horner said he was traumatized by children killed by the artillery that cleared the way for his Army unit.


    Windy Horner said the Army took Nick Horner's gun away the last time he was in Iraq, in 2008, after he cleared his barracks there, too. He was discharged because of PTSD in January.


    Back in the States, she said, Nick Horner sometimes attacked her in bed at night - as though she were an enemy - only to "wake up" or snap out of what seemed like a trance and not remember a thing.


    That is one reason she believed Nick Horner when he told a court-appointed psychiatrist that he did not actually remember the shootings and robbery - though he has no reason to doubt them.


    Months before his arrest, Windy Horner recalled, a VA counselor told her to get used to having a broken husband.


    "She told me, 'Your husband died in Iraq. You're either going to have to deal with that or move on,' " Windy Horner said.


    The prosecutor in Nick Horner's case, Blair County District Attorney Richard Consiglio, said that five million Americans have PTSD and that that "alone is not a defense to any crime."
    And in a statement, the families of the victims said his trial "should be an examination of the criminal actions of Nicholas Horner and not a referendum on the military's handling of our country's soldiers."

  • Bitch, Please...! SAT NOV 28 - Rape, Expect a Bit of It!

    Yakima Wa. arrest made in a 14 year girls brutal rape murder


    OK, This has got to be the "Bitch, Please...!" of the day....  And the following is a description of the brutality that this girl went through. Rape, expect a bit of it?? WTF?
    RAPE
    Expect a bit of it.
    RAPE
    If someone were to force a small propane torch to a victims mouth you
    would get this exact effect, thermal burns and they would drowned on their
    on fluid.
    http://newzar.files.wordpress.com/2009/07/rape.jpg
    That says it all...
    Images are available with one little Google....

  • What NOT to buy our kids for Christmas!

    This "Girls Only" toy is sure to inspire your daughter to reach for the sky...while dusting the high shelves.

  • Addison: Cops say murder-suicide note has yet to be discussed with family

    Addison: Cops say murder-suicide note has yet to be discussed with family

    As relatives of a slain Addison family began making funeral arrangements Friday, police again declined to reveal contents of a note left by Thomas Mangiantini that could explain why he fatally shot his wife and two sons before killing himself in their home this week.


    Addison Police Chief Tim Hayden said the one-page, handwritten note discovered by police late Wednesday did not allude to any financial, marital or health problems, but Hayden would not disclose the actual contents because he had not discussed it with family members.


    Mangiantini, 48, put a gun in his mouth Wednesday morning after shooting his wife, Elizabeth Mangiantini, 46, once in the head, according to the DuPage County coroner. Mangiantini also shot his son Thomas Jr., 8, once in the head, and his son Angelo, 12, suffered gunshot wounds to the head, according to the coroner.

    The Rev. Mark Jendrysik, of St. Philip the Apostle Catholic Church in Addison, said Friday that the family planned to have a funeral mass at the church but that the time had not been decided. Arrangements were to be handled by Salerno's Rosedale Chapels in Roselle. A spokesman for Elizabeth Mangiantini's family said Friday that relatives were setting up a memorial fund but did not have details.

    Meanwhile on Friday, as many as six Addison police vehicles were parked in front of the Mangiantinis' home on Wisconsin Avenue. Next-door neighbor Dorothy Savaglio said police had removed and returned boxes from the house over the past two days.

  • Walken and Madden: The Story of Thanksgiving

    Bric-a-Brac Walken and Madden: The Story of Thanksgiving


    Christopher Walken and John Madden land in the new world with the rest of the pilgrims.
    They must decide whether to give thanks for it, or completely annihilate it...



  • RAPE - "Expect a bit of it..."

    Yakima Wa. arrest made in a 14 year girls brutal rape murder


    OK, This has got to be the "Bitch, Please...!" of the day....  And the following is a description of the brutality that this girl went through. Rape, expect a bit of it?? WTF?
    RAPE
    Expect a bit of it.

    RAPE


    If someone were to force a small propane torch to a victims mouth you
    would get this exact effect, thermal burns and they would drowned on their
    on fluid.


    http://newzar.files.wordpress.com/2009/07/rape.jpg

    That says it all...

    Images are available with one little Google....

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  • PROGRAM KORBAN SEMPENA HARI AYA AIDIL ADHA 28 NOV 2009

    Salam,
     
    Allahu Akhbar, Allahu Akhbar, Allahu Akhbar
    Laa illa ha illallahu wallahu akhbar
    Allahu akhbar walillahil ham... 
     
    Kami penduduk Taman Pinggiran Golf - Fasa 3, telah melaksanakan ibadah korban sebanyak 2  ekor lembu pagi tadi...
     

  • Suspects: "were going to steal the victim's prescription medication." Gruesome Death!

    LOOKED LIKE SOMETHING HAD GONE HORRIBLY WRONG!!  TRULY SHOCKING, SAY NEIGHBORHOOD!

    Two suspects in what police described as the "gruesome" killing of South Charleston resident James Andrew Gillespie are now in custody after each turned himself in to police in separate circumstances without incident Saturday.


    Teens Drinking with Victim Prior to 'Gruesome' Murder, Police Say
    A fight over prescription drugs led to the murder of a South Charleston man, according to the criminal complaint.


    RAW VIDEO: Second Suspect Surrenders
    RAW VIDEO: Murder Suspect Surrenders
    myZ 10: Thorough Investigation Underway
    Murder Investigation in South Charleston

    South Charleston Police Sgt. Michael Greathouse said a lawyer for Michael Thompson called early Saturday to say his client wanted to turn himself in. Greathouse was one of four officers who went to an address on Pinch Street in South Charleston to get Thompson.

    "I don't know what connection the house had to anyone, but we were told he would be waiting on the steps," Greathouse said.

    He also said the suspect, who is 18, had nothing to say, acting on the advice of his lawyer.

    Police continued to search for the second suspect, Jimmy Eugene Thompson, 19, of 505 E St., South Charleston, hours after the first turned himself in.

    But negotiations resulted in Jimmy Thompson turning himself in a few hours later. The two men are not related.

    South Charleston Police Chief Brad Rinehart said that he and other officers had been negotiating with "mutual parties" to have the second Thompson turn himself in.

    Rinehart said, "I want to reassure neighbors in that area that this was an isolated incident. The detective bureau has been working around the clock, and this shows their dedication."

    Rinehart said Jimmy Thompson will be arraigned and likely taken to the South Central Regional Jail.

    Police think both men knew Gillespie, who was found dead in his Macon Street home in South Charleston on Friday. 

    Police say both men had been in the victim's home earlier in the day drinking, according to a report Detective A.R. Gordon filed in Kanawha County Magistrate's Court after the first suspect was arrested.

    A witness told police the men "were going to steal the victim's prescription medication." According to the police report, as soon as the victim realized his prescription drugs could be stolen, one suspect punched the victim in the face.

    The witness who later contacted police fled as soon as he saw a suspect punch the victim, according to the same report.

    Detective J.D. Gray of the South Charleston Police Department said a medical examiner performed an autopsy on Gillespie on Saturday, but he declined to give details.

    According to Gordon's report in Magistrate's Court, Gillespie had been beaten and stabbed numerous times. After an appearance before a magistrate, Michael Thompson was taken to the South Central Regional Jail where he was being held without bond on a murder charge.


  • Girl reportedly slain to keep her from claiming rape

    Girl reportedly slain to keep her from claiming rape

    Investigators say a 14-year-old Sunnyside girl was killed after saying she would report that she had been raped.


                                                             

    The 22-year-old Outlook man suspected of slashing her throat and leaving her to bleed to death next to an irrigation canal was ordered held on $500,000 bail at his first court hearing in the case Wednesday afternoon.


    Jesus Fabian Perales was arrested Tuesday on suspicion of first-degree murder in the October 2008 death of Francisca Hernandez-Ramirez.


    The girl's body was discovered in February in the Yakima River near Prosser.


    She had been missing since Oct. 20, 2008, and was identified in February through dental records. Her family had reported her as a runaway shortly after she disappeared.


    Perales fled the Yakima Valley after Hernandez-Ramirez's death, but authorities said they learned last week that he had returned.


    An arrest report by Yakima County sheriff's detectives gave the following account:


    Hernandez-Ramirez, the suspect and several others had been drinking and playing cards at a home in Outlook.


    One of the men at the party found Hernandez-Ramirez passed out on the bathroom floor. After he helped her up, she said she wanted to go home.


    That man and the suspect then drove her toward Sunnyside. Midway through the trip, she started screaming that she had been raped by another male at the party.


    The men drove around the area while deciding what to do.


    They decided to drop her off in an orchard, hoping that she would forget what happened when she awoke.


    The suspect told the other man, who was driving, that he would deposit the girl, then return to the vehicle.


    When he came back, the driver asked if she was all right, and Perales said she was "good."


    The autopsy found that her throat had been cut, severing both carotid arteries.


    The next day, Perales returned and told the driver he needed to sell or destroy the car because it might contain evidence of Hernandez-Ramirez's death.


    He also threatened to kill the driver or his family if he went to police.


    Hernandez was the third teenage girl to be found dead in the Yakima Valley in the 18 months leading up to her death.


    Jaqueline Abundez, 17, of Grandview was discovered in a Lower Valley canal in July 2008 with shotgun wounds to her chest. And 14-year-old Jaleeza Lobdell of Tacoma was found in an orchard near Moxee in September 2007. Detectives suspect Lobdell died of a drug overdose.


    Police do not believe the deaths are related. No arrests have been reported in the other two cases.

  • UPDATE: Killed Girl, 14 - So She Wouldn't Report Rape

    Jesus Fabian Perales Accused of Killing 14-Year-Old Girl So She Wouldn't Report Rape


    Francisca Hernandez-Ramirez.jpg
    14-year-old Francisca Hernandez-Ramirez went missing last October after getting a ride home with two men.

    Last October, 14-year-old Francisca Hernandez-Ramirez was at a party in a house outside of Yakima. Why Hernandez was drinking and playing cards late at night when most girls her age were fast asleep is unknown. But more of what happened to Hernandez later that evening has now come to light after police arrested 22-year-old Jesus Fabian Perales and charged him with her murder.


    According to investigators, Hernandez was found passed out in the bathroom by a man who she then asked for a ride home. The man and Perales were halfway back to Hernandez's house when she apparently began screaming that someone had raped her at the party. Not knowing what to do, the two men decided it'd be best if they dropped Hernandez in an orchard, with the oddly misguided hope that the young drunk girl would sleep off the evening and forget what happened to her.


    When it came time to drop her off, investigators say the man waited as Perales escorted Hernandez out of the car. When Perales returned, he allegedly told the man that Hernandez was "good." A claim that would prove grossly untrue four months later, when Hernandez's body was found next to an irrigation ditch with her throat slit.


    Perales fled the Yakima Valley for California shortly after Hernandez's disappearance. But investigators say they were tipped off last week that he was back in town. He's currently being held on $500,000 bond on suspicion of first-degree murder.


  • Yakima Arrest In Murder of Girl: Francisca, 14 - Silenced After Rape

    Arrest made in murder of Yakima girl, 14

    Arrest made in murder of Yakima girl, 14

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    YAKIMA, Wash. - There has been an arrest in the murder of a 14-year-old Sunnyside girl.

    Francisca Hernandez-Ramirez disappeared last October. Her parents say she went to a party and never came home. Her body was found near Prosser in the Yakima River in February.

    Police had a suspect in mind, 22-year-old Jesus Perales, but he fled to California.

    " The information we have going back to spring of this year, it wasn't until late last week that detectives with the violent crimes task force, working on another matter, developed information that indicated the suspect had returned to the Yakima Valley," said Stew Graham with the Yakima Sheriff's Office.

    Perales was arrested Tuesday. His prelimary hearing was scheduled for Wednesday.


    YAKIMA, Wash. (AP) — Police in Yakima say a 14-year-old girl was killed by a 22-year-old man to keep her from reporting she was raped.

    The Yakima Herald-Republic reports Jesus Fabian Perales was arrested Tuesday on suspicion of first-degree murder. He made his first court appearance Wednesday. Police say Perales slashed Francisca Hernandez-Ramirez's throat and left her to bleed to death next to an irrigation canal in October 2008.

    Her body was not discovered until February in the Yakima River and was identified by dental records. Perales had left Yakima after the girl's death, but came back recently. The Yakima County Sheriff's office says Perales and another man drove the girl to an orchard after finding her passed out at a party.

    In the car, the girl screamed she was raped by man. Perales then allegedly killed her and threatened the other man. ___


    Information from: Yakima Herald-Republic, http://www.yakima-herald.com

  • PLEASE COMMENT - Information Here!

    These topics are very horrific and I know lots of folks will be Googling here, please leave comments under each story as it gets posted.  I think it is especially helpful when others in the communities the crimes happen in may get on and leave a message we might not otherwise see.  I am hopeful that we can all discuss these case together, and if we leave messages, we can! 

    Just hit REPLY and comment TODAY!   Or go to

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    thanks!

    ndyheart

  • Anggun in Black and White

    Iseng-iseng buat format picture black and white dari foto-foto Mbak Anggun.
    Jangan dihina ya kalo jelek....wink

  • People from the Netherlands Are Mourning Shaniya!

    Shaniya Davis Story - What Has it Done to Us? - Shaquille O'Neal Pays for Shaniya Davis's Funeral- People from the Netherlands Are Mourning

    First the Nation, Now the World, Speaks Out About Shaniya Davis. Shaquille O'Neal is Touched by Shaniya Davis


    Shaniya Davis Story - What It Has Done To Us

    Shaquille O'Neal secretly paid for little Shaniya's funeral. He wanted her funeral to be "as beautiful as she was". The story touched Shaq, as it did our nation. This story has gone past touching the nation; people from across the world are still mourning the death of Shaniya

    Davis.

    I did an article on Shaniya Davis and asked for comments from readers. I wanted to hear other's thoughts, maybe because I too cannot get Shaniya's tragic story out of my mind and wanted to know how others were dealing with this. The overwhelming responses from people are still coming in. Washington, California, Michigan, Connecticut, and every other state have been heard from.



    One of the biggest surprises out of all the response was from a woman sending a Dutch Condolence registry site from the Netherlands. Her name is Lisa. She stresses that Shaniya's story has brought many to the conclusion that we need to look after each other's children.



    As of this morning, there are 148 people who have said a few words for this little 5 year old angel who was murder half way around the world from these wonderful people. I have added a link to it here: A Dutch Condolence Registry for Shaniya Davis. I do not read the language, but the shear numbers of quotes that are listed here speaks volumes to me. Here is the comment I received from Lisa.


    A Dutch condolence register for Shaniya
    (Guest)

  • Dad left message telling of his distress in Addison Suicide-Murders

    Addison suicide-murders: Dad left message telling of his distress

    Message doesn't cite money woes or marital problems, police chief says

    Addison murder-suicide

    A memorial takes shape at the Mangiantini family's home on Wisconsin Street in Addison. (Tribune photo by Chris Sweda / November 26, 2009)

    Thomas Mangiantini left a "somewhat distraught" note that offers a clue to why he fatally shot his wife and two sons before killing himself in their Addison home, police said Thursday.

    Addison Police Chief Tim Hayden said the one-page, handwritten note discovered by police late Wednesday did not allude to any financial problems or troubles in the Mangiantini marriage, but he would not disclose the actual contents because he had not discussed it with family members. The DuPage County coroner, who performed the autopsies Thursday, said Mangiantini, 48, put a gun in his mouth after shooting his wife, Elizabeth, 46, once in the head. Mangiantini also shot his son Thomas Jr., 8, once in the head, and his other son, Angelo, 12, suffered multiple gunshot wounds in the head.

    A preliminary police investigation indicates the family did not have issues with credit card debt or face the possibility of losing their home to foreclosure, Hayden said.

    "He didn't mention financial problems in the note," Hayden said, refuting reports that Mangiantini had recently lost his printing job. But police and friends said his hours had been reduced and his wife had been laid off in the spring from Ford Motor Co.

    "She had a severance period; following that she could have applied for unemployment. The father was still employed," Hayden said.

    DuPage County records showed no filings for separation of marriage or prior domestic contact with police, Hayden said. Two guns were recovered from the scene, both of which police say Mangiantini used. Authorities have not determined to whom the guns were registered, Hayden said. Two shots were heard in the background of the desperate 911 call that Elizabeth Mangiantini made around 6:30 a.m. Wednesday.

    "It was just a few short words. It was something to the effect of, 'Please help me. Help me, help me,' " Hayden said.

    The boys were found upstairs in their beds in a shared bedroom. Thomas Mangiantini also was found in an upstairs bedroom, and his wife was discovered in a hallway downstairs. Hayden said she had no signs of defensive wounds.

    Addison police continued to process the scene Thursday and plan to continue through Saturday, Hayden said, adding, "Something will reveal itself as the investigation moves along."

    The family were members of St. Philip the Apostle Catholic Church in Addison, where prayers were offered for them during Thanksgiving Mass, said the Rev. Mark Jendrysik.

    "Today, there were a lot of tears being shared before and after Mass," he said.

    Jendrysik said the family regularly attended Mass and many church functions. Thomas Jr. and Angelo were in the religious education program.

    "Angelo was always very active, involved in the discussions and eager to know more," Jendrysik said. "Tommy wanted to play the part of Jesus, because that's who he wanted to be like."

    The deaths weighed heavily on neighbors, with some deciding to move their Thanksgiving meals to other locations, said next-door neighbor Dorothy Savaglio, one who made the change.

    "We don't want to have the kids see the crime tape. We're supposed to be thankful today," she said, adding that it would be difficult to explain to children who knew the Mangiantini boys why they won't see their friends at school on Monday.

    John Langton, superintendent of Addison School District 4, said Tommy was a second-grader at Fullerton Elementary School, and Angelo was in sixth grade at Indian Trail Junior High School.

    Elizabeth Mangiantini was active in the PTA at Fullerton, Langton said.

    "I know that once she lost her job, as difficult as that was for the family, I've had a couple people tell me that she was excited to be a stay-at-home mom," he said.

    Tribune reporter Stacy St. Clair contributed to this report.

  • Thanksgiving Massacre Suspect Has Mental Health Issues

    Thanksgiving Massacre Suspect Lives In Kendall, FL

    Source: Thanksgiving Massascre Suspect Has Mental Health Issues

    Suspect and Three Victims Are From Miami-Dade

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    Thanksgiving day massacre suspect Paul Michael Merhige had a history of mental instability and suicide attempts, a law enforcement source tells CBS4 News. Merhige, of Kendall, is being sought in the shooting deaths of deaths of four relatives at a family gathering in Jupiter, Florida, Thursday night.

    No one was at the Kendall home Friday where Merhige, 35, lived with his parents. The Palm Beach Post reports that Merhige was an honor student at Gulliver Academy in Pinecrest and at the University of Miami. Luis Sanchez, the family's long-time handyman, described Merhige as a "conflictive" person, as he spoke with reporters outside the family home.

    Among those shot dead were Merhige's twin sisters, Carla, and Lisa Merhige Knight, both 34. Carla was a project coordinator for the Miami-Dade Guardian Ad Litem program for needy children. She lived in a gated community just a few blocks from her parents' home in Kendall. Lisa Merhige was a real-estate salesperson for Coldwell Banker in Pincrest. She worked with her mother, Carol, also a realtor. Lisa's husband, Patrick Knight, a Miami attorney, was shot and wounded in the Thursday night rampage and remains hospitalized.

    Lisa was pregnant with the couple's first child.

    Co-worker Miguel Arrellano described Lisa Merhige as a "very loving, very caring" person.

    Neighbors say the Merhige family was very close. "I'm in shock. It's such a tragedy," said neighbor Cindy Alperin. "They are wonderful people, just wonderful people."

    Television news trucks lined the street in front of the family's home on Southwest 88th Avenue in an upscale neighborhood near U.S. 1. A police officer sat in a squad car at the end of the street, apparently keeping watch in case the suspect, Michael Merhige, should return home.

  • Manhunt Underway for FL Thanksgiving Murder Gunman

    Manhunt underway in south Florida murders -

    Three women and a child in bed were shot to death during a family Thanksgiving gathering in South Florida and a male relative was being sought early Friday.

    Police said 17 relatives were in the house when the shootings were reported around 10 p.m. Thursday in Jupiter, a small, well-off beach town about 90 miles north of Miami that is best known as a home to celebrities including Michael Jordan and Burt Reynolds.


    Jupiter Police Sgt. Scott Pascarella said officers were looking for Paul Michael Merhige, 35, of Miami. Merhige is a cousin of the 6-year-old victim, Makayla Sitton, and has no criminal record, police said.


    The others killed were Merhige's twin sisters, Carla and Lisa Merhige, 33, and an aunt, Raymonde Joseph, 76, according to police.  Police say Lisa was pregrant but have not released how far along she was in the pregnancy.


    Authorities said a fifth victim, Merhige's brother-in-law Patrick McKnight, was being treated at a hospital. His condition was not available.


    Police across South Florida and the U.S. Marshals Service were searching for Merhige. Pascarella said Merhige is believed to be driving a blue 2007 4-door Toyota Camry with Florida license plate W42 7JT.


    Pascarella said police received a 911 call from a neighbor shortly after 10 p.m. Police then received a second 911 call from someone within the home. Pascarella says the shootings took place inside the house.


    "What led to this incident, we're not quite sure," said Pascarella. "It did not appear there was any altercation prior to this shooting."


    Police said the home was owned by Jim Sitton, a photojournalist for WPTV-TV and father of the little girl killed. Sitton told WPTV his daughter was in bed when she was shot. He was at the party at the time of the shooting but was not wounded.


    Yellow crime scene tape was stretched around Sitton's salmon-colored house, located in a well-kept subdivision of stucco homes. Several cars were parked in the driveway, and a crime scene van sat in front.


    Sitton told local media that his daughter was supposed to perform Friday in a holiday production of "The Nutcracker."


    "God packed a lot of sweetness into that little body," Sitton said. "She's just our life. I don't know how we are ever going to recover."


    The relationship between Sitton and Paul Merhige was unclear, police said.


    Phone calls to a number listed for Paul Merhige were not answered. A phone call to Sitton was also not returned.


    Neighbors in the Palm Beach County community were shocked.


    "Our kids walk the streets by themselves," said 67-year-old Nicole Kemp, who did not know any of the victims. "I thought it was the safest place to live. I guess it doesn't matter, if there's a maniac here."


    It's unclear where the adult victims lived. Carla Merhige was a real estate agent in Miami, said a co-worker.


    "She was a wonderful agent," said Joanna Sherman, a manager at Coldwell Banker Residential real estate. "She was very active in the community and in charities. She was just a genuine, beautiful individual. She always had a smile for everybody."

  • Shaniya's Story: What Has it Done to Us? Even the Dutch Mourn Her...

    Shaniya Davis Story - What Has it Done to Us? - Shaquille O'Neal Pays for Shaniya Davis's Funeral- People from the Netherlands Are Mourning

    First the Nation, Now the World, Speaks Out About Shaniya Davis. Shaquille O'Neal is Touched by Shaniya Davis

    Shaniya Davis Story - What It Has Done To Us

    Shaquille O'Neal secretly paid for little Shaniya's funeral. He wanted her funeral to be "as beautiful as she was". The story touched Shaq, as it did our nation. This story has gone past touching the nation; people from across the world are still mourning the death of Shaniya

     Davis.

    I did an article on Shaniya Davis and asked for comments from readers. I wanted to hear other's thoughts, maybe because I too cannot get Shaniya's tragic story out of my mind and wanted to know how others were dealing with this. The overwhelming responses from people are still coming in. Washington, California, Michigan, Connecticut, and every other state have been heard from.

    One of the biggest surprises out of all the response was from a woman sending a Dutch Condolence registry site from the Netherlands. Her name is Lisa. She stresses that Shaniya's story has brought many to the conclusion that we need to look after each other's children.

    As of this morning, there are 148 people who have said a few words for this little 5 year old angel who was murder half way around the world from these wonderful people. I have added a link to it here: A Dutch Condolence Registry for Shaniya Davis. I do not read the language, but the shear numbers of quotes that are listed here speaks volumes to me. Here is the comment I received from Lisa.

    A Dutch condolence register for Shaniya
    (Guest)

  • Paul Michael Merhige was a "Conflicted Person" Neighbor Reports

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    Paul Michael Merhige shoots family on Thanksgiving in Florida.
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    Paul Michael Merhige Had a History of Mental Illness Palm Beach Post Reports

    Paul Michael Merhige was a "Conflicted Person" Neighbor Reports


    Paul Michael Merhige, the man who shot members of his family on Thanksgiving Day as they were gathered for the holiday, had a history of mental illness and suicide attempts, the Palm Beach Post reports.

    A neighbor, Luis Sanchez, 56, who does handy man work for many of the families in the neighborhood, said he knew the Merhiges family well. He had done work at their home over the past six years. He reported that Merhige had a history of mental illness and suicide attempts.

     

    The house is owned and lived in by Merhige's parents, Michael and Carole, their three children, Paul Merhige and their twins, Carla and Lisa, would visit often. The twin women were killed in the shooting by their brother, Paul Merhige. Merhige also shot and killed a six year old girl, a cousin, as she was sleeping at the house. Another relative, an aunt, was also killed.

    Paul Michael Merhige Thanksgiving massacre killed four people and injured two others, one critically. All six people were relatives.

    Luis Sanchez said, "They are wonderful people," when speaking about Merhige's parents. He goes on to say, "The fact is with this they have lost all three of their children all at the same time and I can't imagine how painful that must be for them. The fact that the twin sisters came into life together and then died on the same day too; my God!"

    Paul Michael Merhige was an honors student when he attended the University of Miami in the early 1990's. According to the Miami Herald archives, he was a top scholar on the National Advanced Placement (AP) test. He also earned scholarships playing football in high school.

    His educational achievements bear an eerie similarity to what was known about the Fort Hoot Shooter. They are both very bright and highly intelligent men, who did unspeakable acts to the people close to them.

    Sanchez referred to Paul Merhige as "a conflictive person." The newspaper did not elaborate on this comment. A search by the newspaper had produced no findings that Paul Merhige had ever been treated for mental illness. There was nothing in the story to substantiate the claim. The only reference to Merhige is that he "was a very conflicted person.

  • Thanksgiving Day Masacre in Jupiter, FL

    JUPITER, Fla. – The police and federal marshals fanned out across South Florida on Friday in the hunt for a man they said had left a Thanksgiving dinner crowded with relatives in this upscale beachfront community and returned with a handgun, opening fire and killing his twin sisters, an aunt and a 6-year-old cousin. Two other people were wounded.


    The suspect, Paul Michael Merhige, 35, joined 16 relatives and friends at the dinner Thursday at the home of his cousin, Muriel Sitton, and her husband, Jim Sitton, a cameraman for a local station, WPTV. At some point, Merhige left the gathering and "returned a short time later," according to a police statement.


    "As he stood inside the residence, he began shooting the victims without warning," the statement said.


    Three people were killed almost instantly. They were identified by the police as the suspect’s 33-year-old twin sisters, Carla Merhige and Lisa Knight, who was pregnant, and Merhige’s aunt, Raymonde Joseph, 76.


    The fourth person who died was the Sittons’ daughter and only child, Makayla, 6, who was shot as she slept in her bed. She died while being flown by helicopter to a hospital.


    Lisa Knight’s husband, Patrick Knight, 37, was wounded and taken to a hospital, where he was in stable condition, and a cousin, Clifford Gebara, 52, was treated for minor injuries and released.


    According to the Jupiter police, Merhige, who lives in the Miami area about 90 miles south of Jupiter and had been a top scholar and athlete at the prestigious Gulliver Preparatory School, fled the home in his blue Toyota Camry, before the police and rescue workers arrived on the scene.


    Officer Sally Collins-Ortiz said the local and state authorities were still searching for Merhige late Friday. He was considered armed and dangerous. Collins-Ortiz said the motive for the killings remained unclear, though witnesses said Merhige "had some ongoing resentment against some family members."


    "We still don’t know what the problem was, but obviously it must have been something serious," said the officer, standing outside the home surrounded by police tape.


    The quadruple homicide in the normally quiet town, frequented by tourists and home to celebrities like the former NBA superstar Michael Jordan, shocked residents of the large stucco homes along the street lined with palm trees and expensive cars.


    "This is a really nice neighborhood," said Paul Turano, originally from Long Island, N.Y., who with his wife, Carole, moved to Jupiter three months ago. "It’s a place where children play in the streets, no problem. It’s normally very quiet here."

  • Alyssa Not the First Female Teenager to Murder for Kicks! See the List

    Before Alyssa Bustamante: 10 teen girl 'thrill killers'

    The Missouri teen has shocked the country by killing a 9-year-old. But

    she's not the first female teenager to murder for kicks...


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    Before Alyssa Bustamante: 10 teen girl 'thrill killers' Bustamante, 15, is charged with killing

    her little sister's 9-year old friend, just

    to see what murder felt like.
    (Facebook.com)

    The case of 15-year-old Alyssa Bustamante, who last week was charged as an adult with the brutal and premediated murder of a 9-year-old neighboring girl, has made national headlines. (Watch a report about Alyssa Bustamante.) The Cole County, Missouri teen allegedly dug two graves in advance, then strangled and stabbed her young victim simply to "know what it felt like" to kill. (It's unclear whether Bustamante had chosen a second victim.) As possible explanations surface, media observers and members of the community remain shocked that a young girl would commit such senseless violence. But the Bustamante incident is hardly unprecedented. Here are 8 more cases of young female thrill killers:


    The "Heavenly Creatures" Killers (1954)
    One summer morning, 16-year-old Pauline Parker and her best friend Juliet Hulme, 15, lured Parker’s mother into a wooded park in Christchurch, New Zealand, then bashed the woman in the head with a half-a-brick stuffed into an stocking. The girls claimed their victim had fallen and hit her head, but their story disintegrated after the murder weapon was found. Following a “sensationalist” trial in which the girls were alleged to be lovers, both were sentenced to five years in prison. The story inspired the 1994 film, “Heavenly Creatures,” starring Kate Winslet. Today, Hulme is a successful crime novelist who writes under the name Anne Perry.

    Mary Bell (1968)
    At only 11 years old, Mary Bell strangled two local boys—aged 3 and 4—in her hometown of Newcastle, England. After killing the second child, she carved the letter "M" into his body with a razor. Her stated motive was the "pleasure and excitement" of killing (though Bell said later that, as the child of a prostitute, she had been sexually abused from a young age). She was released from prison in 1980 and today lives under a new identity.

    Brenda Spencer (1979)

    "I just don't like Mondays," 16-year old Brenda Spencer notoriously replied when asked why she attacked an elementary school near her San Diego home. Shooting sniper-style with a semi-automatic rifle her father had given her for Christmas, she wounded eight children and a police officer and killed two adults. Her stated dislike of Mondays inspired a hit song penned by Bob Geldof for his band, The Boomtown Rats.

    Diana Zamora (1995)
    As a first-year student at the prestigious Naval Academy in Annapolis, MD, Diana Zamora was arrested for killing  16-year old Adrienne Jones, a romantic rival, during her senior year of highschool. With help from her then-boyfriend, Zamora had lured Jones into a car and brutally attacked her with a metal weight to "appease" Zomora's jealousy. Zamora is now serving a life sentence.

    Wendy Gardner (1994)
    When she was 13, Wendy Gardner and her 15-year old boyfriend plotted to murder Gardner’s grandmother by strangling her with a yo-yo string. After perpetrating the unlikely crime, the couple celebrated with "a three-day orgy of sex and junk food." Both were later convicted for the murder, and Gardner — who lived in Ulster county, NY, at the time of the crime — received a sentence of seven years to life.


    The "Vampire Clan" killings (1996)
    A Eustice, Florida couple were the unlucky victims of teen vampire enthusiasts. Chastity Keesee, 17, and Dana Cooper, 20 — led by their “Vampire Clan” cult “sire,” 17-year-old Rod Ferrell — participated in the murder of the couple, the parents of another cult devotee’s parents. In keeping with the vampire cult's rituals (which also required members to drink each other's blood), the victims were  beaten to death with a crowbar. Ferrell was convicted of first-degree murder and sentenced to death (later commuted to life without parole). Keesee and Cooper were both found guilty of third-degree murder.

    “Collie Killers” (2006)
    Australians were shocked by the case of two 16-year-old girls who decided they “felt like” brutally murdering one of their friends by stuffing her mouth with a chemical-soaked cloth and strangling her with a wire in the remote coal-mining town of Collie, Western Australia. While testifying, the girls — whose names have never been publicly released — recalled that their struggling victim called them "freaks" as she died, but neither expressed remorse. In 2007, both girls were sentenced to life in prison.

  • Second Video of Friend: "Murder is a Very Serious Thing"

    Alyssa: "Murder is a very serious thing," friend declares in part two of video interview


    Alyssa Bustamante, 15, in her booking photo for the charge of murder of 9-year-old Elizabeth Olten.
    Alyssa Bustamante, 15, in her booking photo for the charge of murder of 9-year-old Elizabeth Olten.
    AP Photo/Cole County Sheriff's Department
    On Monday ian interview Jennifer Meyer, friend of teenage murder suspect, Alyssa Bustamante, gave to CBS's "The Early Show." Meyer claimed that Bustamante told her she wanted to know what it would feel like to kill someone.


    Bustamante, 15, has been charged with the first-degree murder of nine-year-old Elizabeth Olten. She has been charged as an adult in the stabbing, strangulation, and throat-slitting murder of Olten on October 21, 2009.


    Below you will find an excellent video interview conducted by St. Louis NBC-affiliate KMOV Channel 4's Mark Schnyder with Meyer. The shorter packaged interview can be seen here.


    The longer, uncut interview below, however, is by the far superior of the two.


    In it Meyer talks about her former friend, Bustamante. She mentions that they once used to go to birthday parties together. Lately, however, Bustamante wanted to go to drug parties.


    Meyer talks about Bustamante's strict grandparents and also how the girl would get mad at people.

     
    Jennifer Meyer speaks about her friend and alleged murder suspect Alyssa Bustamante


    Meyer also expands on her comment about wanting Bustamante to kill another person and that the comment was made at Bustamante's own birthday party in January 2009.

    Meyer also claimed that Bustamante hit her sister, Emma, and also wanted to see her and her little brothers hurt. 

    In trying to make sense of her friend's allegedly murderous deed, Meyer stated, "Everyone has their own kind of strangeness." She added, however, "I don't think anyone can be forgiven for that."

    Meyer succinctly closed with, "Murder is a very serious thing. I think she deserves what's coming to her."

    -Read the indictment against Alyssa Bustamante.


    -UPDATE: It appears as if the embed feature for the video is not working. To view the entire Jennifer Meyer interview please visit here.


    -UPDATE 2: I have added the video from YouTube.


    Jennifer Meyer speaks about her friend and alleged murder suspect Alyssa Bustamante

  • Another Holiday Without Haleigh...

    The front of Annette Sykes house is beginning to look ready for the holidays. There are Christmas lights around the sides of Haleigh’s great-grandmother’s home, as well as red ribbons on all the trees. Those ribbons have been there long before the lights went up. They serve as a constant reminder that this family will never be whole until Haleigh is home.

    Haleigh Cummings - A holiday without Haleigh

    “It was hard for her birthday, it’s hard today with it being Thanksgiving…it’s hard to give thanks without her here,” said Sykes.

    Barely able to speak, Sykes summed up the holidays in one sentence.


    “Without her here---it just won’t be the same,” said Sykes.


    Annette says a typical Thanksgiving when Haleigh was home would consist of everyone going to a family member’s house, eating, and enjoying each other’s company.


    “She would be at her Papa Jeff’s…he always cooks a big Thanksgiving dinner…just enough to feed an army basically. She’d be there with the other grandchildren, playing around, screaming and hollering. You know, basically having a ball,” said Sykes.


    This Thanksgiving, the family will not be together. Annette says she may stop by her daughter’s house. She says Haleigh’s father Ronald is spending the holiday with friends. She says it’s sometimes easier for him to cope with memorable days like Thanksgiving without family around because they remind him too much of Haleigh.


    “We try not to say anything with Ronald around because he’s so torn up. He just saying he doesn’t know how he’s going to get through it. And I can understand why,” said Sykes.


    “It is really, really hard for him. He desperately wants his little girl back. He needs her and I know she needs him. I know how close they were, she’s daddy’s girl and she needs him back,” said Sykes.


    Annette said anytime there is a holiday or special day that was memorable, it is very difficult for everyone who knew Haleigh. But, she says the worst has yet to come because Christmas was Haleigh’s favorite holiday.


    “All holidays are terrible…but with Christmas coming up, you know, that’s a kid’s special time anyway. If Haleigh’s not here it won’t be Christmas,” said Sykes.


    Annette made a plea to whoever has any information in the abduction of Haleigh. She said she doesn’t so much care about punishing whoever did it. She just wants Haleigh home.


    “The main the thing that we want and have wanted for months now is just for Haleigh to be home. We had hoped that by now we’d have a really great thanksgiving with her here with us”, said Sykes.


    “Please have a heart, have a soul, have a conscience, whatever it takes to bring our baby back home to us. Her dad needs her desperately. Her brother needs her, we all need her, and I know she needs us. I don’t care anymore, we just want Haleigh home…it’s not that we wouldn’t like to see them punished, but if we can get Haleigh back, I don’t care. We need her back. We want her back more than anything,” said Sykes.


    The Putnam County Sheriff’s Office says it continually conducts interviews with potential suspects in this investigation. It says the reward to bring Haleigh home is $30,000. If you have any information that can lead to Haleigh Cummings, call the Putnam County Sheriff’s Office at 386-329-0800. You can also remain anonymous and call in tips to Crime Stoppers of Northeast Florida at 1-888-277-TIPS.

  • How To Ensure Your Blended Family Becomes ONE...

    I was thinking on the subject of blended families (because the majority of relationships are divorcees) and started reading a book on blended families (Becoming One Family: Bringing Blended Families Together).  While I'm not in a relationship that I would consider serious or anything like that, I at least recognize that at my age, the likelihood that I would be in a relationship with a man where they did not have any children are slim to none (and really not a problem for me as I love children and large families). 

    Anyway, I am counting the cost and trying to determine how (if it should come to that) to make a second marriage work (if I would ever choose to be in one... and the jury is OUT on this one... lol).  With the high rate of divorce in second or more marriages, how does one ensure that their family becomes a healthy blended one (and not one where you're taking care of your kids and he his).  So my question to you all would be...

    1)  If you've been in a relationship and/or had children with a man / woman that you weren't currently with, do you think it's possible to have a blended family work as if the children were your natural born children?

    2)  If this is something you'd like to see, what steps would you take to ensure that you bonded with your step children or made this type of family a reality for you?

    3)  Who should discipline the children if they are not your biological children?

    4)  How long do you think it would take for the family to operate as a healthy blended family?

    Ok... this concludes my line of questioning but I just wanted to get some discussion around this as our children are in dire need of guidance, love, nurturing from both male and female adults in their lives.

  • When Haleigh Went Missing: Key Differences; Similarities from Caylee

    Caylee Anthony, Haleigh Cummings: Cases' key similarities, differences

    Eight months later, Caylee Anthony and Casey Anthony remain squarely in the spotlight. Yet only a few weeks after Haleigh Cummings disappeared, interest in her case is dwindling.


    The day everyone said goodbye to Caylee Marie Anthony, the world learned about another missing little girl.

    So TV trucks rolled from the 2-year-old's memorial in Orlando to a double-wide trailer about 80 miles away in Putnam County — the place where 5-year-old Haleigh Cummings was last seen alive.

    "It was deja vu all over again," said Bob Longo, news director for WESH-Channel 2.

    During the following days, the pack of satellite trucks parked near Haleigh Cummings' home in tiny Satsuma rivaled the media turnout after Caylee's remains were found in December near her home in east Orange County.

    But soon, reporters on the latest missing-little-girl story began leaving Satsuma.

    It wasn't deja vu after all.

    Haleigh's story is fading after three weeks, but the Anthony saga has remained in the headlines for almost eight months.

    The contrast between the tents and trailer in Satsuma where Haleigh's family pleaded for her return and the Anthonys' suburban home points to one of the reasons Haleigh's story is fading from the headlines, said Roy Peter Clark, senior scholar at the Poynter Institute.

    "I think the greatest difference between the Caylee story and the Haleigh story is social class," said Clark, whose institute is a school for journalists in St. Petersburg. "I don't believe that working-class Americans get a very fair shake in the news media in general."

    Only a handful of reporters remain in this isolated community north of the Ocala National Forest — even though investigators said Haleigh was abducted and they think she is alive.

    Expect more coverage in the months leading up to October's trial for Caylee's 22-year-old mother, Casey Anthony, who is accused of killing her daughter.

    "Any missing child is a tragedy and a cause for great alarm and concern," said Bob Jordan, news director for WFTV-Channel 9. "Every one of those kids is news, but that does not translate into equal news interest."

    Strange twists stand out


    The Anthony case has all the elements and more of the kind of stories guaranteed to draw an audience: sex, crime and general interest, said Paul Lachelier, an assistant professor of sociology at Stetson University.

    Photos of a scantily clad Casey Anthony, reports about her romantic life and the stories she told about a nanny who abducted her daughter — a story investigators don't believe — are drawing readers.

    So are other details, including the serious charges against the young mother, frequent courtroom battles and the behavior of her parents, George and Cindy Anthony.

    The photos and videos of Caylee also captivate viewers.

    The case also has provided bizarre twists and turns, beginning when Casey Anthony was arrested after claiming Caylee had been missing for 30days.

    "When she was questioned about that, her effect was so flat and unemotional that it called our human experience into question," veteran Orlando defense attorney Cheney Mason said.

    Then, Mason said, a "circus" ensued: California bounty hunter Leonard Padilla injected himself into the situation. Casey Anthony was in and out of jail. Protesters routinely amassed outside the Anthony home demanding justice.

    "There is constant fuel for the fire," Mason said.

    The Haleigh case hasn't offered as many twists and turns. News crews scrambled recently after cadaver dogs hit on a scent in a dumpster. But the container was searched and nothing was found.

    Most media coverage of Haleigh's disappearance has revolved around her family's pleas for her safe return.

    Fewer leaks, less to say


    Law enforcement has released little information about its investigation into Haleigh's disappearance, unlike the Caylee case, which was marked by frequent news conferences and leaks from insiders.

    "The return of Haleigh is the most important thing, but we also have a crime involved somewhere with her disappearance," Capt. Dick Schauland of the Putnam County Sheriff's Office said.

    "We're trying not to jeopardize the criminal investigation or possible future prosecution."

    For Orlando media, coverage also has been hampered because Satsuma is far away — a two-hour drive for some — and because Putnam County isn't considered part of its market.

    Jordan, WFTV's news director, and Steve Hyvonen, news director for WKMG-Channel 6, had different opinions about the Anthony case: Hyvonen said that the story continues to generate strong ratings and that WKMG viewers are clamoring for more coverage, while Jordan said his station is no longer seeing the rating spikes that occurred early on in the case, and that he thinks viewers might be getting sick of the story.

    The directors said their stations have received little viewer feedback about the Haleigh story.

    "We have been up there just because it's such a significant story," Hyvonen said.

    "But as each day goes by without a new development, it get a little lower as far as where it plays in the newscast."

  • OT ARE YOU WITH ME PEOPLE?

    Okay look...

    Brother can be shortened to BRO
    Sister is SIS
    Son is SON

    I propose the following shortening of Daughter

    DOT

  • Misty's Dad Was Doctor Shopping Before Arrest

    Haleigh Cummings case: Misty Croslin's dad will be questioned

    Investigators plan to question the father of Misty Croslin, who was the last person to see Haleigh Cummings, a newspaper is reporting.


    Hank Croslin Sr., 41, father of Misty Cummings was arrested Tuesday and accused of doctor shopping.  He is being charged for withholding information from a practitioner and has been booked into the Putnam County Jail.


    It is being reported that Croslin Sr. got approximately 300 Oxycodone and Hydrocodone pills from three different doctors between April and May 2009. That is a lot of pills for that period of time for one person to have if you ask me. Apparently none of the doctors knew about Croslin having prescriptions from other doctors at the time. It is said that this practice is known as doctor shopping which is considered a third-degree felony. His bail has been set for $7500.


    As we all know Hank’s daughter, Misty Croslin, who is the last person to have seen Haleigh Cummings, has given authorities a lot of inconsistent statements on what happened the night they reported little Haleigh Cummings missing on February 10, 2009. Since there is still so much about that night that needs to be clarified the Putnam County Sheriff’s department are planning on questioning Croslin Sr. about Haleigh’s disappearance to see if there is anything he knows that they don’t already know about. They have said that his arrest Tuesday is in no way related to the investigation of Haleigh Cummings.


    I know some will say this news has nothing to do with finding Haleigh, but does it? Perhaps one day when the right one gets arrested they will finally crack or slip and tell something that will help the investigators put that final piece to this puzzle together and find out where Haleigh is.


    I still can’t convince myself that this precious little girl is gone forever. My heart keeps telling me someone has her and is taking care of her. Maybe it is because as a mother I just can’t accept she may no longer be alive but I still feel she is and I pray to God that my feeling is right. If I am wrong she still needs to be found where she can be laid to rest properly. We need to know what happened to Haleigh.


    Is she lying in the swamps somewhere? Is she being held prisoner somewhere and bad things happening to her? Was she sold to someone? If she is alive is she being well taken care of? We want to shout out to the world… WHERE IS HALEIGH?


    Keep her in your prayers as well as all the other children in my list which includes Caylee Anthony (found dead), Adji Desir (remains missing), Haleigh Cummings (remains missing), Somer Thompson (found dead), Elizabeth Olten (found dead) , Masaraha Ross (remains missing), Alex Mercado (drowned) Rebecca Marie Allen (found alive), Sandra Cantu (found dead), Anthony Holland (found alive), Shaniya Davis (found dead), Hassani Campbell (remains missing), Giovanni Gonzalez (reported dead), Neveah Buchanen ( found dead) and Shannon Dedrick (found alive) and now Angel Miguel Perez (found safe).


    When I sit down to eat Thanksgiving Dinner tomorrow I will be thinking about these children and their families. I will be praying day after day for them but I will say a special one for them tomorrow.


    Simon and I would like to wish each and every one of you and your families a very Happy Thanksgiving. Don’t forget to tell your children you love them and give them a hug.
    Jan Barrett


    As a favor to our readers I am posting these web sites:


    Stop the abuse and murder of the children in the U.S.


    http://www.thepetitionsite.com/16/stop-the-abuse-and-murder-of-the-children-in-the-us
    http://www.thepetitionsite.com/1/change-sex-offender-laws


    Authorities in Putnam County want to interview Hank Croslin Sr., 41, about what he knows about the about events the night Haleigh was last seen, the Gainesville Sun is reporting.

    The girl, then 5, vanished in Febuary.

    The elder Croslin was arrested Tuesday and accused of "doctor shopping," the newspaper said.

    "Even though this arrest is not related to their case, investigators in the Haleigh Cummings investigation intend on questioning Hank Croslin Sr. to determine if he has any knowledge of the events that took place the night Haleigh Cummings went missing," the Putnam County Sheriff's Office reported in a statement Wednesday, the newspaper said.


    Although it is the Thanksgiving long weekend we will be running our regular Sunday program to look at the events in the search for missing Florida child Haleigh Cummings.
    The panel is still being finalized but on the ‘for certain’ list is Simon and Jan Barrett, ace reporter for WSKY 97.3 TJ Hart, and investigator William Cobra Staubs. I am also hoping that we will be joined by crime writer Denny Griffin and investigative journalist Levi Page.
    Another of the Croslin family found themselves under the bus this week. Hank Croslin Sr. was arrested on charges of doctor shopping. It is alleged that he obtained over 300 tablets of oxycodone and hydrocodone from at least three different doctors. The interesting aspect of this is that the arrest was made by FDLE rather than PCSO. While there may be no significance to this, one has to wonder the rationale. FDLE have stated that while Hank Croslin Sr’s activity has nothing to do with the search for Haleigh Cummings they will take the opportunity to talk to him about the case.
    Scuttlebutt that hit my radar today concerns father Ronald Cummings, one would think that in his time of loss he would seek solace in his family, apparently though he opted to avoid his family on Thanksgiving.
    Does Crystal Sheffield have a new MySpace page? If she does, then things may not be well in her relationship with Chad.
    Was the comment left here on BNN really by Teresa Neves? The jury is out on that one. It certainly came from the heart, and if it is legitimate it was truly a plea with feeling and we here at BNN heard you loud and clear.
    It was also pleasing to see that the Nancy Grace program gave 15 minutes to the the story on Thanksgiving Day, while the cast left something to be desired, at least the subject was given some air time. And for that we should be grateful.
    Haleigh Cummings has been missing since February, Law Enforcement maintains that her disappearance was not a stranger abduction. A family member or close friend had to have been involved. But who? None of us in the press are privy to the investigation, in fact extracting information from them is akin to having a root canal performed by someone with a Black & Decker power drill.
    I am sure that Law Enforcement is as frustrated as we are. I’ll make an offer that I have made before. Give us something to chew on. We can shake the trees, and that is what is needed.
    There are several of us in the press that will not let this case become cold. Lets try and resolve the Haleigh Cummings mystery.
    Another subject that we will be discussing is the capital murder case against Casey Anthony. Casey Anthony is accused of killing her young daughter Caylee Anthony. Although her defense team make mumbling noises about how they are being paid, or if indeed they are being paid at all. One thing is very clear, money abounds. Who is the money bags paying for this defense? I have some theories, but, at this stage I think that I will avoid that subject.
    One of the ‘esteemed’ defense lawyers is Andrea Lyon. Ms Lyon brags that she has never lost a Capital Crime case. This is good for the defendant, but maybe not so stellar for the family of the deceased. Earlier this week a story surfaced, Ms. Lyon was giving a lecture, and explained that there are:

    Always killers on the jury, and there are some, the ammunition they need to go after people… juries go about persuading people to kill.. and protect your live people from the killers.
    Oops, that was not the smartest comment to make. Ms. Lyon managed to get the story yanked from the news site involved. But the sentiment was clear. Justice is not about fairness or the truth, it is about finding ways to weasel your client out of trouble.
    Of course copies of this inflammatory statement are still floating around the internet world, as indeed is the actual recording of the lecture.
    I am still pondering about putting up this illuminating link to the inside track of Ms. Lyon and her mission online.

  • Greetings

    I first heard of this from Arjay's articles and he provided a link. I have to say this is an impressive little community. I've been lurking for a week or two and will continue to do so, if I don't get a little more active.

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    VIVAnews - Gempa berkekuatan 5,3 skala Richter menggoyang wilayah Nusa Tenggara Timur. Gempa bersumber dari kedalaman 25 kilometer.

    Menurut laman Badan Meteorologi dan Geofisika, Sabtu 28 November 2009, gempa tercatat terjadi pada pukul 07.04. Gempa berlokasi di 188 kilometer Barat Daya Waingapu-NTT, 255 kilometer Tenggara Raba-NTB.

    BMKG merilis gempa yang terjadi pada posisi 10,76 Lintang Selatan dan 118,97 Bujur Timur.tidak berpotensi tsunami.

  • Miscellaneous Things Goths tend to like

    Misc. things Goths tend to like

    • art (Most Goths are dabblers in the creative arts, e.g. photography, music, painting, writing, drawing etc.)
    • the humanities in general (many have an interest in literature and history, philosophy etc.)
    • H. R. Giger ("Alien," biomechanic fantasy artwork) and Salvador Dali (Surrealist artist)
    • clove cigarettes
    • cats
    • candles
    • fairies
    • gargoyles
    • coffee, "going to coffee" -- getting together to drink coffee and socialize at a diner or coffee shop
    • Christmas lights -- the miniature kind strung all around the bedroom
    • spider webs, spiders -- spider web design on tights, shirt, jewelry
    • skulls, skeletons -- in jewelry, on tights or clothing
    • graveyards -- especially to take pictures or have picnics
    • coffins -- most often a coffin shaped box (the cross between a lunch box and purse) or jewelry holder
    • other such spooky things
    • Egyptian symbols, Christian symbols, Pagan symbols -- cross, ankh, pentacle etc.

  • Gothic Movies

    Movies

    It might be an interesting tidbit to note that Tim Burton is the director for several of the movies I've listed here. He seems to have the knack for the gothic aesthetic in a film.
      The Hunger - a vampire flick with David Bowie and Susan Sarandon. Its opening scene shows a view of a dance club with a caged Peter Murphy singing "Bela Lugosi's Dead."
      Rocky Horror Picture Show - a cult classic musical with Tim Curry as a flamboyant transvestite. A little too strange to be described. Most small independent film theaters will have a Rocky Horror showing night now and again where people come dressed as the characters. There is a stage area where players mimic the movie as it plays. A caller leads the standard interjected addition of lines, and the audience participates in the scenes by throwing rice at the wedding scene, squirting squirtguns during the scene where it's raining, dancing during the "Time Warp" song etc. Quite a fun event.
      Hellraiser (and all of the sequels) - Some horror flicks hit it big with Goths, some don't care for them at all.
      Dracula - from Bela Lugosi's version to the Francis Ford Coppola version, it tends to be a big classic (as well as the book).
      Heathers - an eighties movie with Winona Ryder, Christian Slater, and Shannen Doherty that offers a black humor about high school and killing.
      The Crow - starring Brandon Lee (who was accidentally killed during filming). A classic truly for its dark themes of murder, revenge, love, urban decay. Dark aesthetics in the film with shots of a graveyard and an elaborate church.
      Edward Scissorhands - with Johnny Depp, a movie about a misfit with an unusual hedge-trimming genius who seems a bit out of place in the picture perfect suburbia.
      The Nightmare Before Christmas - catchy tunes like "This Is Halloween" and classic characters like Jack the Pumpkin King and Sally make it a big hit with Goths.
      Beetlejuice - with Geena Davis, Winona Ryder and Michael Keaton. Winona Ryder's character is a Goth classic, the spooky girl Lydia.
      Batman Returns - I think that the wintertime atmosphere and the sleek sexy fetish inspired catwoman costume make this movie gothic. It had a darker feel than all of the following sequels.
      The Craft - 1996 film with Neve Campbell. This wasn't that good of a movie, and it has more to do with witchcraft than gothic. However, it is one of the few movies that has a goth chick as a main character, not that she is portrayed in a realistically Goth way.
      Gothic - not what you might first think, its true to the original gothic literature movement. It is a movie about the night that Mary Shelley first came up with the idea for Frankenstein. Full of ghost stories, hallucinations, horror and madness.
      The Lost Boys - with Corey Haim, Corey Feldman and Keifer Sutherland, it's one of the classic 80's teenage renegade vampire flicks, with an even better soundtrack.
      A Clockwork Orange - A twisted film based on the novel concerning society, violence, the government, mind control and conditioning.

  • Gothic Books

    Books etc.

    It's hard to say what kind of books that Goths like because it falls into such a broad range. Many Goths are well-read in "classic" literature, religion, philosophy, history, and politics. It all depends on the inclination of that person.
    Vampire, fantasy, horror, sci-fi novels

    • Anne Rice novels, especially the Vampire Chronicles: Interview with the Vampire, The Vampire Lestat, Queen of the Damned, The Tale of the Body Thief etc.
    • Poppy Z. Brite novels: Lost Souls etc.
    • H.P. Lovecraft, Ray Bradbury (sci-fi horror and fantasy)
    Classics
    • Dostoyevsky - Notes from the Underground
    • Dante - The Inferno
    • Orwell - 1984
    • Stoker - Dracula
    • Mary Shelley - Frankenstein
    • Percy Bysshe Shelley, Lord Byron (Romantic-era poetry)
    • Everything by Edgar Allen Poe
    Magazines
    • Permission
    • Ghastly
    • Blue Blood
    • Industrial Nation
    • Carpe Noctem
    • Propaganda
    Comic books
    • "Sandman" comic books (especially the "Death: the High Cost of Living" comics)
    • "The Crow" comics
    • "Johnny the Homicidal Maniac" and "Squee" both by Jhonen Vasquez
    Goth-friendly record labels:
    • Cleopatra
    • Projekt
    • Tess
    • Anubis

  • Gothic Fashion

    Some of the popular gothic style traits:

    • anything black (White or any dark colors like navy blue and deep red are also popular but less common.)
    • silver jewelry
    • pallor (This could be because some Goths want a sort of undead look; or they want to embody the Victorian aesthetic that says pale skin is a sign of nobility; or because tanning causes skin cancer. In general, Goths view paleness as much more aesthetically pleasing than being tan, whether or not they have a reason why.)
    • dyed hair (Black, very light bleached blonde, red, or purple are fairly common.)
    • black and white makeup -- white foundation, black lipstick, black eyeliner
    • thin, plucked eyebrows or shaved off and drawn in eyebrows
    • bondage and fetish fashion -- leather, PVC, latex, rubber, vinyl and bondage gear, corsets
    • crushed velvet or regular velvet
    • poet's shirts -- a few ruffles around the cuff, the collar, and the front (They are usually white.)
    • chokers -- a dog leash with spikes, a bondage collar, or a velvet ribbon tied around the neck
    • ankh (Egyptian symbol for everlasting life)
    • the Eye of Ra (also, Eye of Horus, an Egyptian symbol. The symbol's popularity with Goths is partly due to the fact that it is on the cover of the "Vision Thing" CD by The Sisters of Mercy.)
    • pentacle (The pentagram is a five pointed star -- a pagan symbol for fire, earth, air, water, spirit. The pentacle is basically a pentagram with a circle around it. These terms are often used synonymously. Since the pentacle is associated in some people's mind with Satansim, some Goths may wear a pentacle to shock people, or as a part of their Theatrical Satanism.)
    • wearing lingerie that shows (garters, teddy, bustier, slip, camisole)
    • opera-style capes or cloaks
    • opera length gloves, either satin or latex (shorter length gloves as well, usually vinyl)
    • crosses (Christian symbolism)
    • fishnet tights or shirts
    • black and white horizontal striped tights like the Wicked Witch of the West
    • chains (as a belt, necklace, part of the outfit, whatever)
    • spikes/studs (usually attached to a leather jacket or to a collar, belt or bracelets)
    • tattoos (depends on the person)
    • piercings (Usually not as excessive as punks, goths might have a few piercings, if any. Tongue, nose and nipple piercings seem most common. It depends on the person.)
    • pointy toed shoes, buckle boots, high heels, combat boots or Doc Martens
    • wearing band T-shirts, having band stickers on your car, notebook etc.
    • a short A-line haircut or ratted out, hairsprayed, chaotic hair, sometimes hair extensions
    • a leather jacket (often with designs painted on it), black trenchcoat, black vinyl raincoat-looking jacket, or velvet jacket
    • a box (A cross between a small purse and a lunchbox, usually black with silver hinges and a briefcase-like handle. They are usually decorated with band stickers. Guys and girls alike carry them.)
    • Some Goths tend to look like: Robert Smith (of The Cure) -- ratted up hair, smudged red lipstick, black makeup for eyeshadow; Siouxsie Sioux (of Siouxsie and the Banshees) -- short black ratted hair (or a sleek A-line haircut) and the makeup done very precisely with pointed angles; Death (the Sandman comic book character) -- designs drawn around the eyes, tousled black hair, always wearing an ankh; Eric Draven (character in the comic book and movie The Crow) -- white face with black vertical lines drawn above and below the eyes, black lipstick drawn extended past the edge of the lips in long smiley face sort of lines, black trenchcoat; Andrew Eldrich (of the Sisters of Mercy) -- always wearing sunglasses, short slick black hair, leather pants, a leather jacket with an open shirt; Bettie Page (1950's bondage pinup queen) -- long wavy black hair with short, curled-under bangs, very thin drawn in eyebrows, and dark red lipstick.
    • Vampire archetype -- Lestat or Louis from Anne Rice's novels The Vampire Lestat and Interview with the Vampire or a Dracula influenced look. The vampire archetype look also contains some commonalties with the vampire-free Victorian aesthetics: elaborately designed hair, ruffled shirts, long skirts, velvet, opera capes, corsets, vests. Punk archetype -- ripped tights, chains and spikes, a leather jacket, boots, ratted hair, defiant attitude. Tortured artist archetype -- a bohemian influence, wearing all black, maybe kinda beatnik, wearing sunglasses all the time, maybe a beret, thin, tired-looking, a notebook carried around at all times, can be seen reading alone in coffee shops. The tortured artist look may be a little more avant-garde, but it is not quite as clearly defined fashion-wise. It is made more by how someone acts than how they look.
    For guys, some common Goth looks are:
      A fishnet shirt and vinyl or leather pants with some sort of boots and other various accessories.
      A white shirt (sometimes with the collar folded up to cover the neck), black pants, a black vest, boots or dress shoes.
      Some of the guys will wear makeup, skirts, corsets or heels. It's not really meant to be cross-dressing because they are not actually trying to look like women. Gothic tends to be a very androgynous thing, where some of the straight guys like to look or dress feminine, either to challenge social gender barriers, to show that they have an open mind, or as just a fashion thing.
    For girls, some common Goth looks are:
      A cleavage-enhancing corset top with a long, flowing or tutu-like skirt.
      A crushed velvet dress with either boots or heels.
      A fishnet shirt with a black bra underneath, a bondage belt (or some other type) and either 1) a short vinyl skirt 2) a long velvet skirt 3) tight leggings or stirrup pants usually made of vinyl or crushed velvet.
      Fishnet stockings with a vinyl dress, bondage gear, high heels or heel boots.

  • composting toilets

    Does anyone have experience or use of  a composting toilet.  Our septic is not doing so well, may be old, need replacing.  Was thinking about switching to the composter.  If you have any knowledge let me know, thanks.  Or even if you're just reading this and don't know anything about them let me know.  Before I moved down here I enjoyed this blog and then it just stopped. This is a good place to learn stuff and share experiences.

  • Always been a little shy.....

    Hi Everyone.
    Not sure what to say about myself, Sorry  I dont get to much time to come on here, have 4 little ones that take up most of my time, got interested in the paranormal by mistake and now am hooked big time, deeply into Angels, Past lives, Karma and everything Egyptian.  I am always working on new  healing treatments and working with magical energies...
    Do think it's great to have a place where you can share and talk about everything, Look forward to getting to know everyone better, been a customer of DeeDee for years....
    Luv n Light
    Kam
    (shapeshifterangel)


  • Thanksgiving Dinner Leads to Murder: Manhunt for Killer

    Thanksgiving dinner leads to murder: four dead, one injured and manhunt for killer 



    A Thanksgiving dinner lead to murder in Jupiter, Florida yesterday.  Three women and one child Paul Michael Merhigewere shot to death and the man who fired the weapon is on the loose.


    According to police reports, 17 family members were at the home when gun shots were fired at approximately 10:00 p.m. Paul Michael Merhige is 35 years old and accused of killing four family members, including his six year old cousin, Makayla Sitton who was asleep in bed. Merhige is also accused of killing his twin sisters, Carla and Lisa Merhige, 33, and his aunt, Raymonde Joseph who was 76 years old. Paul Michael Merhige is accused of going on a shooting rampage that killed the four family members and injured his brother-in –law Patrick McKnight.

    Jupiter Police Sgt. Scott Pacarella told reporters that Merhige is resentful and at one point left the Thanksgiving dinner before returning later with the gun and executing his bloody rampage. The youngest victim, 6 year old Makayla Sitton is the daughter of a WPTV photojournalist, Jim Sitton.

    WPTV News has set up a tribute site to their co-worker’s daughter where messages may be left.

    Click here for a slideshow of Makayla Sitton with her parents. 

    Makayla's parents were in the home at the time of the rampage but were not injured. Reports state that Patrick McKnight was taken to a hospital but his condition has not been made public.

    Lisa Merhige, one of Paul’s twin sisters was pregnant, though police have not released how far along she is.

    Police are currently searching for Paul Michael Merhige and those in the Tampa Bay area and all of Florida should be on the lookout for him. He is considered to be armed and dangerous. He is driving a blue 2007 4-door Toyota Camry with the Florida license plate: W427JT.
    Photo Credit: Jupiter Police

  • Thanksgiving Shooter had History of Mental Problems

    Source: Merhige had history of mental problems

    Paul Michael Merhige, the man police believe killed four and wounded two at a family Thanksgiving dinner in Jupiter, killing four and wounding two, has a history of mental problems and suicide attempts, according to a handyman who worked for his family.

    Luis Sanchez, 56, who works for many families in the neighborhood, said he had worked for the Merhiges for at least six years and knew them very well.

    "In fact, I was going to call them yesterday to wish them Happy Thanksgiving, but I didn't do it," he said.

    Sanchez said only Mehrige's parents, Michael and Carole, lived in the house, and the three children often visited.

    "A friend of mine called this morning to tell me about this and I said that can't be true," said Sanchez, who is originally from Peru. "But he said it was. I began to cry and then I began to pray. In don't understand what happened.

    "They are wonderful people," he said of the parents. "The fact is with this they have lost all three of their children all at the same time and I can't imagine how painful that must be for them. The fact that the twin sisters came into life together and then died on the same day too; my God!"

    Merhige was an honors student at the University of Miami in the early 1990s, joining the school's Alpha Lambda Delta honor society, according to Miami Herald archives.

    At the Gulliver Preparatory Academy, he was an top scholar on the national Advanced Placement (AP) test and graduated with a 5.16 grade point average. He also earned scholarships while on the football team, kicking a winning 45-yard field goal in September 1991 to beat rival Westminister Christian, and played on Gulliver's baseball team as well.

    In 1986, the Miami Herald reported, Merhige, then an 11-year-old catcher, was one of 16 players from three South Florida Khoury Leagues to play a series of games in Japan.

    Today, Sanchez called Paul Merhige "a conflictive person."

    He said he had done work for Paul at his apartment in nearby Coral Gables.

    Lisa Knight joined Coldwell Banker Real Estate as a Realtor-Associate in August 2007, according to her page on the Linkedin business social network. She previously worked for Miami-Dade County courts before obtaining her MBA from from the University of Miami.

    "Lisa is truly a gifted person with the talent to make anyone around her smile," Jackye Clayton, who had worked with Lisa Knight, said on a Linkedin recommendation. "She is smart, honest and loyal. I have never met someone so brave with such poise and grace."

    Sanchez said Carla worked for the county, possibly in foster care.

    He said he last saw Paul about five days ago at the parents' house but sensed no problems between them.

    Sanchez said he was told by his clients in the neighborhood that police started knocking on doors on the street at about 5:30 a.m. Friday.

    " I guess they were looking for Paul."

    No Florida public records indicate Merhige has been involuntarily committed.

    Under Florida law, anyone with a history of being involuntarily committed to a mental institution, or judged incompetent or mentally defective, from obtaining a firearm permit.

    But the law is silent about people voluntarily treated for mental illness.

  • 4 People Slain at Thanksgiving Holiday Party in Florida

    4 Slain at Thanksgiving Holiday Party

    Victims Include 6-Year-Old Girl Shot in Bed

    JUPITER, Fla. (Nov. 27) - A Florida man opened fire on his family after Thanksgiving dinner, killing his pregnant sister, 6-year-old cousin and two other relatives before speeding off and initiating a statewide manhunt, police said Friday.

    Police were still searching Friday evening for the suspect, Paul Michael Merhige, 35, of Miami.

    Skip over this content He also is accused of gunning down his pregnant sister's twin and his 79-year-old aunt. Jupiter Police Sgt. Scott Pascarella said there had been an "ongoing resentment" in the family, but did not elaborate.

    "What led to this incident, we're not quite sure," Pascarella said. "It did not appear there was any altercation prior to this shooting."

    Pascarella said Merhige left briefly before returning to the gathering with a handgun.

    Seventeen relatives had gathered in Jupiter, a small beach town about 90 miles north of Miami best known as a home to celebrities including Michael Jordan and Burt Reynolds.

    Police spokeswoman Sally Collins-Ortiz said the city had never experienced a slaying with so many victims.

    The department enlisted the U.S. Marshals in the search for Merhige, who police said had no known criminal past. He was believed to be driving a royal blue 2007 Toyota Camry with a rear spoiler and Florida license plate W42 7JT.

    Pascarella said police first received a 911 call from a neighbor, then another from someone inside the home. The residence, in a well-kept new subdivision with brick-paved driveways, is owned by local TV videojournalist Jim Sitton and his wife. On Friday it was surrounded by yellow crime scene tape and police crime unit vans.

    Skip over this content

    Sitton's daughter Makayla was the young victim. Police say she had gone to bed before the rampage.

    Sitton told local media that his daughter was supposed to perform Friday in a holiday production of "The Nutcracker."

    "God packed a lot of sweetness into that little body," Sitton said. "She's just our life. I don't know how we are ever going to recover."

    The other victims were Merhige's twin sisters, Carla Merhige and Lisa Knight, and an aunt, Raymonde Joseph. A fifth victim, Merhige's brother-in-law Patrick Knight, was in critical but stable condition at a local hospital. Another man, Clifford Gebara, 52, was grazed by a bullet but suffered no serious injury.

    More family members gathered late Friday morning near Miami, declining to talk with reporters.

    Neighbors in the Palm Beach County community were shocked as police processed the home.

    "Our kids walk the streets by themselves," said Nicole Kemp, 67, who did not know any of the victims. "I thought it was the safest place to live. I guess it doesn't matter, if there's a maniac here."

    Carla Merhige was a real estate agent in Miami, said a co-worker.

    "She was a wonderful agent," said Joanna Sherman, a manager at Coldwell Banker Residential real estate. "She was very active in the community and in charities. She was just a genuine, beautiful individual. She always had a smile for everybody."

  • First On Fox: Tax Lien Put On Gosselins Couple Owes Money On House

    First On Fox: Tax Lien Put On Gosselins
    Couple Owes Money On House

    Scott Bomboy and Paul Ruppel, MyFoxPhilly.com

    PHILADELPHIA - The tax man is after Jon and Kate Gosselin in Lancaster County over a $2,700 unpaid water bill.


    Court records show the county has placed a tax lien on the Gosselins’ house on Andrew Avenue in Elizabethtown, Pa.

    The municipal tax lien was filed in the Prothonotary Office for $2,691.75 plus fees and interest for a “water tapping fee” in Upper Mount Joy Township.

    According to the couple's arbitration agreement, Kate Gosselin is responsible for paying for water and sewer bills out of a joint checking account. This is a different account that Jon Gosselin was accused of withdrawing money from.

    The same agreement says the couple has a $15,000 a month debt obligation related to their two houses and each parent must contribute $7,500 a month.

    The house was built in 2006 for Jon and Kate Gosselin, but they bought a second house last year in Wernersville, Pa., for $1.1 million without selling the house in Lancaster County.

    The Elizabethtown, Pa., house is still on the market.


    Both Jon and Kate Gosselin are defendants in the case.

    In October 2009, MyFoxPhilly.com first reported that the family also may have a mortgage on the Elizabethtown house, according to county records.

    The brick Cape Cod in Elizabethtown, Pa., was bought by the Gosselins for $280,000 in 2006.

    According to Lancaster County deed and mortgage records, the mortgage on that house was $193,000 from the National City Mortgage, and the mortgage obligation was for Jonathan and Katie Gosselin (not a family trust).

    The most-recent check of county records show that the mortgage has not been satisfied, as of October 5.

    The documents for their current houses were filed in Berks County in October 2008.

    Their current $1.12 million estate in Wernersville, Pa., was actually purchased in the name of estate lawyer William R. Blumer as part of a Revocable Trust Agreement last October.

    The trust is registered to the same address used by Jon and Kate Gosselin in their divorce case. Such a purchase by a trust is common in estate planning when couples wish to avoid probate issues.

    But the 6,000 square-foot house and its 24 acres weren’t paid for entirely in cash in October 2008. There is a mortgage that is quite substantial.

    The mortgage with Susquehanna Mortgage is also in the name of the estate and it is for $720,000 over 10 years.

    As of October 5, the mortgage had not been paid off.

    It is unknown if the Gosselins or the trust paid into the principal on the loan in the past 12 months

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